Anonymous wrote:At what age did you stop giving gifts (now money or gift cards) to nieces and nephews? They range now from 20-30 years old. I usually would give $100 but now feel like it is time to stop.

I wanted to stop after HS, but sibling insisted we keep going. Definitely stopping after undergrad graduation (4 years)

Anonymous wrote:I only have one and plan to always acknowledge his birthday.

+1

Unless you know someone better than they know themself, don't send a gift.

Anonymous wrote:After 18 I felt awkward getting gifts from aunts and uncles. I will say I’ve appreciated my grandparents gifts even now at 40. Not the monetary amount, but that they think of me.

So Aunts/uncles thinking about you is awkward? How so? If you got married and they gave a gift would still be awkward?

I wish I had nice relatives like that!

Anonymous wrote:At what age did you stop giving gifts (now money or gift cards) to nieces and nephews? They range now from 20-30 years old. I usually would give $100 but now feel like it is time to stop.

Can you afford it? Are they apprecitive? Problem is 30 year is going to get more money from you if you stop now. In the interest of fairness and if you can afford it stop at 30 with everyone.

We did large high school graduation gifts and then we were done.

Anonymous wrote:Wish we had stopped after HS, but sibling said no. We will stop after college

Sibling said no? You stop when you're ready.

After 18 I felt awkward getting gifts from aunts and uncles. I will say I’ve appreciated my grandparents gifts even now at 40. Not the monetary amount, but that they think of me.