My wife and I are the same height (5'11"), and I think she is super hot in heels even though she is much taller than me when wearing them. No problem in my eyes.

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

I think the better question is which if you is more well hung?

Anonymous wrote:I find that those couples always look ridiculous. I'm 6'5".

Your turds must be enormous.

I'm 5" taller than my husband without shoes and still wear heels.

I don't wear heels to be taller. I'm already taller than 99% of people I meet. Heels elongate the legs, they change your posture, and also your overall shape. Dressing a lovely outfit down with a flat dowdy shoe is just the worst. Even more so when done for other people or to meet some kind of social expectation.

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

You sound absolutely awful. Please, for his sake break up with him so he can find somebody who appreciates him.

Yes it would bother me subconsciously. I wouldn’t be able to date a short man.

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

I am 5’9 and have dated men from 5’6 to 6’3 and it didn’t matter. No one cared.

I find that those couples always look ridiculous. I'm 6'5".

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

Dump the dwarf

OP. Neither of us is short.

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Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

No one who loves someone immensely, would consider it an issue. They'll be glad they have love of their life and don't even have to wear heels to fake looking tall.

Calm yourself. You can ask a question without it being a dealbreaker. There’s a spectrum of annoyances.

Anonymous wrote:Which makes me taller than him in heels. Neither of us is short but would this bother you? Would it bother him? Would you stop wearing heels because of it? Right now I’m limiting myself to 1 heels and it’s annoying me.

Dump the dwarf

My husband and I are both 5’10” and I love that we are a perfect fit! I rarely wear heels higher than 1” as they hurt my feet.

Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

No one who loves someone immensely, would consider it an issue. They'll be glad they have love of their life and don't even have to wear heels to fake looking tall.

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been happily married for almost 20 years to a man who is an inch shorter than I am.

Pros: loving husband, excellent father, partner in life, best friend

Cons: I’m taller than him when I wear heels.

Husband 3 inches shorter…. Doesn’t matter due to all of the above.

Anonymous wrote:OP. I love him immensely. He keeps being emotionally perfect for me. And I’m intensely attracted to him in a way that I think will last. We kiss a lot though, which I love but it’s why I’ve stopped wearing taller heels—don’t want to bend down to kiss him.

It’s this for me.

I posted about wanting to feel dominated by a man. I want a man to be able to look down, tilt my chin and ravage me. Not… the other way around.