Anonymous
Post 02/08/2024 08:21     Subject: Do you sext?
A little dirty talk in messages but I do not send nudes.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2024 07:33     Subject: Do you sext?
No. Of course not.

Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 20:07     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.



$$$$$$$ with limited results outside of blackmailing into a better settlement. You need actual proof of two-person sex (like a video of you both together), plus hours of depositions to prove adultery in court (that’s $$$$$$ to your lawyer, plus $$$$$ to your spouse’s lawyer). Plus more depositions and evidence and $$$$$ to defend the pictured spouse’s counter claim of cruelty that drove him or her to take the pictures. Not pictures of his ding dong and different pictures of her hoo ha with corresponding “that’s so hot” texts in between.


Do you want justice, counselor, or billable hours? Please do not say both. To win the case, I agree with you.

My point was by sharing photos with your AP you are helping your spouse in the event of a divorce. How much help is different in ever case.

However, it is not the same if you are married and sharing photos or single and swapping them.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 19:08     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
And VA is a fault state. No alimony
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 19:08     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
DH, no. AP, yes.


A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.


$$$$$$$ with limited results outside of blackmailing into a better settlement. You need actual proof of two-person sex (like a video of you both together), plus hours of depositions to prove adultery in court (that’s $$$$$$ to your lawyer, plus $$$$$ to your spouse’s lawyer). Plus more depositions and evidence and $$$$$ to defend the pictured spouse’s counter claim of cruelty that drove him or her to take the pictures. Not pictures of his ding dong and different pictures of her hoo ha with corresponding “that’s so hot” texts in between.

And even if you prove it, and the judge cares, it’s only helpful for 2) getting divorced immediately (which you likely don’t need because you have spent a year in pre-trial crap, and 2) for an adjustment to the division of assets. So now you get 60 percent of the marital assets that are reduced by the six figures that you two spent getting a fault divorce.

You still shouldn’t sext for other reasons, but you can’t just roll up into court and show the judge some pictures, have him/her be like “ok, you get everything!” the way DCUM likes to pretend.


No. That’s a fallacy. You do not need a pornographic photo of then or even them kissing. The admissions I had via email and text were enough. VA
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 19:06     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
Anonymous wrote:
DH, no. AP, yes.


A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.


It’s how the majority get discovered. Idiots.

Not like they didn’t do it with their spouse too. Not so special, indeed.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 18:26     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
Anonymous wrote:
DH, no. AP, yes.


A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.


$$$$$$$ with limited results outside of blackmailing into a better settlement. You need actual proof of two-person sex (like a video of you both together), plus hours of depositions to prove adultery in court (that’s $$$$$$ to your lawyer, plus $$$$$ to your spouse’s lawyer). Plus more depositions and evidence and $$$$$ to defend the pictured spouse’s counter claim of cruelty that drove him or her to take the pictures. Not pictures of his ding dong and different pictures of her hoo ha with corresponding “that’s so hot” texts in between.

And even if you prove it, and the judge cares, it’s only helpful for 2) getting divorced immediately (which you likely don’t need because you have spent a year in pre-trial crap, and 2) for an adjustment to the division of assets. So now you get 60 percent of the marital assets that are reduced by the six figures that you two spent getting a fault divorce.

You still shouldn’t sext for other reasons, but you can’t just roll up into court and show the judge some pictures, have him/her be like “ok, you get everything!” the way DCUM likes to pretend.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 18:12     Subject: Do you sext?
We do it all the time. I have a folder of nearly 1,000 photos she's sent me, and those are only the favorites that I saved. I've sent her plenty as well and our texting gets very explicit at times.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 17:44     Subject: Do you sext?
Yep. Still have nude pics of the last three gfs I had before marrying my wife too. I use them all to choke the chicken.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 17:37     Subject: Do you sext?
Anonymous wrote:I have, with a previous boyfriend and when that relationship failed, my ex sent it along to mutual contacts. It was really traumatic.

I told my current boyfriend about it and why I will never do it again, and he is really put out that I did it with someone else but not him. Like he pesters me several times a week.

I’m thinking I might be done with men.

But if you have never done it, my advice is to not start.
This guy is trash! And your ex is exactly why I won't do it. I'm sorry you had to go through that
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 17:21     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
DH, no. AP, yes.


A potential gold mine for your DH's divorce attorney or your AP's DW's attorney.

Sexting between single people - no one's business. Sexting between married people and their APs - $$$$$$ for the family law practice.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 16:25     Subject: Do you sext?
No, when I was in my early 20s a guy I was dating took nude photos of me and I was absolutely horrified at what I looked like. Luckily this was in the digital camera age and I saw the pics on my camera and made him delete them right away, so they aren’t floating around out there in the cloud or whatever. and then I cried. LOL. And now that’s a core memory and there will be no more sexting or nudes ever from me. Fortunately my husband doesn’t mind and would never ask for nudes anyway.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 16:23     Subject: Do you sext?
DH, no. AP, yes.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 16:20     Subject: Re:Do you sext?
Yes, I do, but messages only, no photos. Dating.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2024 16:16     Subject: Do you sext?
no