Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Count me in as another skeptical parent. What I have seen is that the stimulants work very well in the short term (so you get all these testimonies of “this changed my kid’s life” or their own life for a parent who just started on the meds themselves), but a large number of ADHD kids eventually still eventually self combust if they didn’t make structured changes to their lives and actually commit to behavior changes and stay within guardrails. This is particularly evident once the kids head off to college despite being on meds.
Did you go to medical school?
Yes, in fact I did, at one of the best in the country.
Although the neurochemical pathways of chronic stimulant use disorders are not definitively established, a few researchers have found evidence of changes in the structure and function of brain neurons after chronic stimulant use in humans. Some researchers propose that the changes may come from dopamine depletion, changes in neurotransmitter receptors or other structures, or changes in cellular components or other brain messenger pathways that could cause the changes in mood, behavior (e.g., compulsivity, decision making), and cognitive function associated with chronic stimulant misuse (Ashok et al., 2017; Jan et al., 2012). (The medical aspects of stimulant use disorders are discussed in Chapter 3.)
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK576548/#:~:text=Although%20the%20neurochemical%20pathways%20of,chronic%20stimulant%20use%20in%20humans.
I don’t actually believe you because I think you would have mentioned it in your post originally but let’s just say you are a doctor. Then surely you know that psychiatrists always encourage school and behavior supports and therapy in addition to medication, and that there are medical treatments beyond stimulants for ADHD that an elementary school age child can take. My own is on Qelbree.
In addition, when you wrote that you are “another skeptical parent” that was right after a (probable troll) posting that she was skeptical of the existence of ADHD as a disorder. So unless you are complete crock of a doctor, you are not “another” skeptic of the diagnosis but rather of the best avenue of treatment, and you owe it to parents to be clear about that in a thread like this. Completely irresponsible for someone with a medical degree.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
So wait - you are saying that the drugs are a scam but you decided to have your daughter participate. Interesting choice.
Neurodiversity is a real thing, medically. And our society (work, school, social interactions) is arranged for neurotypical people. My kid struggles. It has hit him in school, yes but also he is getting real anxiety and is aware he can’t do what others can do easily. He’s not on meds and we are about to consider it.
As a woman with other neurodivergent conditions, I can tell you this is real and meds do work to make someone more highly functioning in our society.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
You don’t believe your teen has ADHD or you erroneously don’t believe ADHD is real despite her diagnosis?!
ADHD, at least if you look at the DSM diagnostic criteria, is a set of behaviors that don't mesh well with modern society. Like most mental health diagnoses, ADHD includes subjective diagnostic criteria like whether the behaviors cause distress to self and others, does it impair me from doing things I would otherwise like to do (like focusing on boring schoolwork or office busywork).
I think the ADHD diagnosis rate is more an indictment of our society than of those who have been diagnosed with it.
I am the skeptical PP and my teenager is an active, outdoorsy, tomboyish girl by her own description. I do not think she is suffering from a mental health problem, but I think it is necessary for her to conform to mainstream society to the extent that she can complete her high school and college education. Hence the meds.
This has to be a complete troll.
Nope, master's degree in clinical mental health.
In my experience, it is the people with actual academic/professional exposure to this stuff that are the most skeptical. Like the MD poster above.
Now I’m convinced there are two trolls here. BS.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
You don’t believe your teen has ADHD or you erroneously don’t believe ADHD is real despite her diagnosis?!
ADHD, at least if you look at the DSM diagnostic criteria, is a set of behaviors that don't mesh well with modern society. Like most mental health diagnoses, ADHD includes subjective diagnostic criteria like whether the behaviors cause distress to self and others, does it impair me from doing things I would otherwise like to do (like focusing on boring schoolwork or office busywork).
I think the ADHD diagnosis rate is more an indictment of our society than of those who have been diagnosed with it.
I am the skeptical PP and my teenager is an active, outdoorsy, tomboyish girl by her own description. I do not think she is suffering from a mental health problem, but I think it is necessary for her to conform to mainstream society to the extent that she can complete her high school and college education. Hence the meds.
This has to be a complete troll.
Nope, master's degree in clinical mental health.
In my experience, it is the people with actual academic/professional exposure to this stuff that are the most skeptical. Like the MD poster above.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Count me in as another skeptical parent. What I have seen is that the stimulants work very well in the short term (so you get all these testimonies of “this changed my kid’s life” or their own life for a parent who just started on the meds themselves), but a large number of ADHD kids eventually still eventually self combust if they didn’t make structured changes to their lives and actually commit to behavior changes and stay within guardrails. This is particularly evident once the kids head off to college despite being on meds.
Did you go to medical school?
Yes, in fact I did, at one of the best in the country.
Although the neurochemical pathways of chronic stimulant use disorders are not definitively established, a few researchers have found evidence of changes in the structure and function of brain neurons after chronic stimulant use in humans. Some researchers propose that the changes may come from dopamine depletion, changes in neurotransmitter receptors or other structures, or changes in cellular components or other brain messenger pathways that could cause the changes in mood, behavior (e.g., compulsivity, decision making), and cognitive function associated with chronic stimulant misuse (Ashok et al., 2017; Jan et al., 2012). (The medical aspects of stimulant use disorders are discussed in Chapter 3.)
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK576548/#:~:text=Although%20the%20neurochemical%20pathways%20of,chronic%20stimulant%20use%20in%20humans.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
You don’t believe your teen has ADHD or you erroneously don’t believe ADHD is real despite her diagnosis?!
ADHD, at least if you look at the DSM diagnostic criteria, is a set of behaviors that don't mesh well with modern society. Like most mental health diagnoses, ADHD includes subjective diagnostic criteria like whether the behaviors cause distress to self and others, does it impair me from doing things I would otherwise like to do (like focusing on boring schoolwork or office busywork).
I think the ADHD diagnosis rate is more an indictment of our society than of those who have been diagnosed with it.
I am the skeptical PP and my teenager is an active, outdoorsy, tomboyish girl by her own description. I do not think she is suffering from a mental health problem, but I think it is necessary for her to conform to mainstream society to the extent that she can complete her high school and college education. Hence the meds.
This has to be a complete troll.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Count me in as another skeptical parent. What I have seen is that the stimulants work very well in the short term (so you get all these testimonies of “this changed my kid’s life” or their own life for a parent who just started on the meds themselves), but a large number of ADHD kids eventually still eventually self combust if they didn’t make structured changes to their lives and actually commit to behavior changes and stay within guardrails. This is particularly evident once the kids head off to college despite being on meds.
Did you go to medical school?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone is quick to diss the methylphenidate given out to the kids, but I was diagnosed at age 35 (I’m a woman) and taking methylphenidate was absolutely life changing for me. My anxiety disappeared, I could work harder and better than ever before, and I felt like I could finally be myself.
Why wouldn’t we want to give this to our kids if needed? My daughter takes it now and she is also very happy to have it. It’s been tested for many years and is very safe for kids.
Wait until you are on max dose due to tolerance.
But as your post illustrates very clearly, ADHD meds are clearly performance-enhancing drugs. I just find it so hypocritical that the (often progressive) parents who get really offended when Asian parents send their kids to Kumon/AoPS to get ahead and place into G&T programs, wouldn’t hesitate to doctor shop and put their tweens on meth analogues to get some academic advantage. You see it on FB groups all the time.
Sorry, but you are taking a very small problem and using that argument to imply that many parents whose children need those medications are bad actors. We and many parents like us aren't giving our kids ADHD medication so they can get an academic advantage over their peers, it's so they can simply perform basic executive functioning skills their peers have no problem doing - like being able to focus for 20 minutes so they can complete their homework or make it out the freaking door each day without having to be told 10 times how to do everything step by step. We aren't medicating our kids, which we do not take lightly and initially did not, to perform better than their peers. Acting like this is the equivalent of professional athletes doping is misguided. What's next? Given Larlo a wheelchair so they can move freely around the school like everyone else is giving Larlo a performance advantage? Don't try to characterize the vast majority of parents whose families have legitimately struggled with ADHD with the very few who abuse it.
Not a small problem. ADHD meds are so heavily prescribed (and increasingly so!) that big pharma can't make them fast enough. Our local pharmacy had wait lists of months this winter. My teen is on them even though I know it's not a real condition. The meds help by creating a socially desirable behavioral state. That is not the same as treating an actual medical condition.
You don’t believe your teen has ADHD or you erroneously don’t believe ADHD is real despite her diagnosis?!
ADHD, at least if you look at the DSM diagnostic criteria, is a set of behaviors that don't mesh well with modern society. Like most mental health diagnoses, ADHD includes subjective diagnostic criteria like whether the behaviors cause distress to self and others, does it impair me from doing things I would otherwise like to do (like focusing on boring schoolwork or office busywork).
I think the ADHD diagnosis rate is more an indictment of our society than of those who have been diagnosed with it.
I am the skeptical PP and my teenager is an active, outdoorsy, tomboyish girl by her own description. I do not think she is suffering from a mental health problem, but I think it is necessary for her to conform to mainstream society to the extent that she can complete her high school and college education. Hence the meds.
Anonymous wrote:Count me in as another skeptical parent. What I have seen is that the stimulants work very well in the short term (so you get all these testimonies of “this changed my kid’s life” or their own life for a parent who just started on the meds themselves), but a large number of ADHD kids eventually still eventually self combust if they didn’t make structured changes to their lives and actually commit to behavior changes and stay within guardrails. This is particularly evident once the kids head off to college despite being on meds.