Anonymous
01/10/2024 13:27
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:I saw my DH liked one of those weird Britney Spears dancing videos. I am not sure which is worse?
My DH regularly shared Britney dancing videos with me. He thought they were delightful. He said it is always nice to see an attractive mostly naked woman, but in this case, it is the same emotional payoff as seeing anything else that is aesthetically pleasing.
It is possible for people to appreciate attractiveness in other people than their spouses without being unfaithful to their spouses. It is not possible to boss your husband around about social media minutiae without being controlling, though.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 11:12
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
I saw my DH liked one of those weird Britney Spears dancing videos. I am not sure which is worse?
Anonymous
01/10/2024 10:31
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:My husband isn't very active on social media. Doesn't log into FaceBook and only looks through Instagram for news and sports mostly. He doesn't follow those IG models or people like that BUT he does follow this one woman who's semi-famous. Olivia Culpo. She used to be Miss USA and has won a bunch of other stuff along with being a model, etc. We've discussed her before because she looks similar to his college girlfriend who he almost married. We've been married for 11 years with a nine year old. Happy. No issues. But, Olivia Culpo is the only woman he follows on Instagram and it bothers me a little. I know she's very pretty and obviously he's attracted to her since she looks like a girl he dated years ago. But, still I wish he didn't follow any women at all.
is this what he likes?
Anonymous
01/10/2024 10:29
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Does she have an Only Fans account?
Anonymous
01/10/2024 10:18
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
I hear both sides all the time:
1. No, a spouse should not be following IG models and hot girls/women on social media.
2. A spouse shouldn't control who their spouse follows on social media even if it's for the sexual appeal of the opposite sex.
In the end, everyone is different. I think following famous people who are attractive is different than following random attractive people (IG models).
To OP's point of her spouse following Olivia Culpo. She is beautiful and I can see why men follow her. Unless he's heating every single post of hers it's not a big deal. Also, if he dated someone who looks like her in college he has to be an attractive man which means the OP is likely a good looking (or was) woman.
1. No, a spouse should not be following IG models and hot girls/women on social media.
2. A spouse shouldn't control who their spouse follows on social media even if it's for the sexual appeal of the opposite sex.
In the end, everyone is different. I think following famous people who are attractive is different than following random attractive people (IG models).
To OP's point of her spouse following Olivia Culpo. She is beautiful and I can see why men follow her. Unless he's heating every single post of hers it's not a big deal. Also, if he dated someone who looks like her in college he has to be an attractive man which means the OP is likely a good looking (or was) woman.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 09:10
Subject: Re:Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Perfect example of some women who look for a reason to start drama.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 09:10
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
It’s possible he saw a really funny or interesting reel and just followed her on a whim, but doesn’t actively seek out her content. If he did fixate on her that would be a problem but a very, very minor issue in the grand scheme of things. I definitely wouldn’t investigate it.
This thread reminded me that DH follows a woman who is some kind of fighter and I wanted to remember who it was. I went to look at his following list and after a minute of scrolling I felt so weird doing it. Not that it was a violation of privacy but I just felt creepy and like it was a very poor use of time. I should have just asked my husband.
This thread reminded me that DH follows a woman who is some kind of fighter and I wanted to remember who it was. I went to look at his following list and after a minute of scrolling I felt so weird doing it. Not that it was a violation of privacy but I just felt creepy and like it was a very poor use of time. I should have just asked my husband.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 09:08
Subject: Re:Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:looks through Instagram for news
Instagram is not a news source.
Yes, it is. Every major new network and newspaper posts news on IG. I read news all the time on IG.
I read Playboy for the interviews with leading intellectuals.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 09:06
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would die laughing if my husband told me not to follow any men, including famous ones, on social media. Ma'am, unless he's a serial cheater with restraining orders out from prior famous women he stalked online, you're the problem here. You sound fully nuts.
+1 I follow tons of athletes and if my husband told me not to follow any males online…. honestly, it’s so preposterous. I don’t even know what I would do. Get therapy?
Following tons is better than following just 1.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 09:05
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Tell him to look at porn like a normal person. Fixating on one celeb is creepy. Ask Jodie Foster.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 08:34
Subject: Re:Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:looks through Instagram for news
Instagram is not a news source.
Yes, it is. Every major new network and newspaper posts news on IG. I read news all the time on IG.
Because you are an idiot.
Yes, the truly smart people call others "idiot" on DCUM.
Most highly intelligent people have no patience for idiots. My DH can barely handle himself inside a CVS watching grown people struggle with self scan. The idiotic are very frstrating for the brilliant
Meh, a lot of “brilliant” people are complete children when it comes to doing day to day tasks. Your husband sounds like he has severe emotional disregulation if he can’t handle patiently waiting a few minutes for other people to do things. That’s toddler behavior.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 08:27
Subject: Re:Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:looks through Instagram for news
Instagram is not a news source.
Yes, it is. Every major new network and newspaper posts news on IG. I read news all the time on IG.
Because you are an idiot.
Yes, the truly smart people call others "idiot" on DCUM.
Most highly intelligent people have no patience for idiots. My DH can barely handle himself inside a CVS watching grown people struggle with self scan. The idiotic are very frstrating for the brilliant
Doesn’t sound like he’s brilliant. It sounds like he is impatient and entitled.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 08:17
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:I would die laughing if my husband told me not to follow any men, including famous ones, on social media. Ma'am, unless he's a serial cheater with restraining orders out from prior famous women he stalked online, you're the problem here. You sound fully nuts.
+1 I follow tons of athletes and if my husband told me not to follow any males online…. honestly, it’s so preposterous. I don’t even know what I would do. Get therapy?
Anonymous
01/10/2024 08:12
Subject: Re:Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:looks through Instagram for news
Instagram is not a news source.
Yes, it is. Every major new network and newspaper posts news on IG. I read news all the time on IG.
Because you are an idiot.
Yes, the truly smart people call others "idiot" on DCUM.
Most highly intelligent people have no patience for idiots. My DH can barely handle himself inside a CVS watching grown people struggle with self scan. The idiotic are very frstrating for the brilliant
Not all of us are idiots. I just refuse to use self check out so I act like an idiot so the hall monitor will come over and do it for me. I will gladly use self checkout when they give me a discount. Until then if you aren’t giving me employee benefits I am not going to be your employee.
Anonymous
01/10/2024 00:12
Subject: Husband's social media is great, besides one thing...
Wow, get a hold of yourself woman