Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you still with your husband?
Why are you not answering the question OP actually asked?
And please don't try to say "But we need to know this to answer her question about what to do re: AP's social media post!"
No, you really don't need that information simply to say, ignore the AP's blatantly selfish, look-at-me video, and be sure the DH is ignoring it as well. Why OP and he are still together might be interesting to read but it's not what she's asking about. But... you knew that when you posted.
I don’t know it’s blatantly selfish - it’s what and who she did in 2023. OP shouldn’t be looking at her stuff but the temptation is understandable. The OW is clearly not past whatever happened and that it ended.
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Yeah, it's definitely about "who she did" in 2023.
If the poor benighted OW isn't "past whatever happened," putting her married former AP on her public reel is not the way to start getting over him. But it's a good way for the OW to needle OP and grasp for his attention again.
Anonymous wrote:I would assume they are still having an affair.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you still with your husband?
Why are you not answering the question OP actually asked?
And please don't try to say "But we need to know this to answer her question about what to do re: AP's social media post!"
No, you really don't need that information simply to say, ignore the AP's blatantly selfish, look-at-me video, and be sure the DH is ignoring it as well. Why OP and he are still together might be interesting to read but it's not what she's asking about. But... you knew that when you posted.
I don’t know it’s blatantly selfish - it’s what and who she did in 2023. OP shouldn’t be looking at her stuff but the temptation is understandable. The OW is clearly not past whatever happened and that it ended.
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Yeah, it's definitely about "who she did" in 2023.
If the poor benighted OW isn't "past whatever happened," putting her married former AP on her public reel is not the way to start getting over him. But it's a good way for the OW to needle OP and grasp for his attention again.
Anonymous wrote:I do hope you don't have any pet bunnies.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you still with your husband?
Why are you not answering the question OP actually asked?
And please don't try to say "But we need to know this to answer her question about what to do re: AP's social media post!"
No, you really don't need that information simply to say, ignore the AP's blatantly selfish, look-at-me video, and be sure the DH is ignoring it as well. Why OP and he are still together might be interesting to read but it's not what she's asking about. But... you knew that when you posted.
I don’t know it’s blatantly selfish - it’s what and who she did in 2023. OP shouldn’t be looking at her stuff but the temptation is understandable. The OW is clearly not past whatever happened and that it ended.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How can you possibly be over this when it happened in the last twelve months?
Op lurking on ow's sm reveals the truth: she isn't over it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you still with your husband?
Why are you not answering the question OP actually asked?
And please don't try to say "But we need to know this to answer her question about what to do re: AP's social media post!"
No, you really don't need that information simply to say, ignore the AP's blatantly selfish, look-at-me video, and be sure the DH is ignoring it as well. Why OP and he are still together might be interesting to read but it's not what she's asking about. But... you knew that when you posted.