Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a lot of high quality suitors when I was single and in my twenties.
I am naturally thin with large breasts. I have a pretty face, nice legs and great hair. I’m ivy educated. I always look polished. I wasn’t the prettiest but I was able to attract and more importantly keep the guys. I’m pleasant and a good conversationalist.
So if you are pretty, nice figure, smart and well educated, you are a good catch.
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I see this referenced here a lot, especially in regards to high value men. Can anyone elaborate?
Family: Emotionally and financially stable family with no racism, addiction, bankruptcy, debt, legal issues. Good marital and parenting role models.
Person: Emotionally stable. Interest in sex. Well educated and well employed. Good nature and good ethics. No serious prior relationship baggage. Decent social and financial skills. No debt. No addiction. Interest and ability for parenting. Good communication skills. Even temper. Basic home running skills, at least knowing how to delegate and organize work.
Not necessarily in that order.
I am sure you will find that. A perfect family of origin.
This is pretty basic.
If my parents had to file for bankruptcy at some point in their lives what does that have to do with me and what does that mean about my ability to manage finances? Absolutely nothing b/c I am a separate person from my parents.
Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend and his friends are divorced and have dated in the past few years. They said they wanted someone who was stable. In mind and financially. And of course, great sex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I see this referenced here a lot, especially in regards to high value men. Can anyone elaborate?
Family: Emotionally and financially stable family with no racism, addiction, bankruptcy, debt, legal issues. Good marital and parenting role models.
Person: Emotionally stable. Interest in sex. Well educated and well employed. Good nature and good ethics. No serious prior relationship baggage. Decent social and financial skills. No debt. No addiction. Interest and ability for parenting. Good communication skills. Even temper. Basic home running skills, at least knowing how to delegate and organize work.
Not necessarily in that order.
I am sure you will find that. A perfect family of origin.
This is pretty basic.
Anonymous wrote:
-Not volatile and unpredictable emotionally
-Not overly neurotic or high maintenance with grooming/looks
Anonymous wrote:I often think the worth of a woman is how her dad treated her and her mom. Some of the most beautiful women I know are the most insecure watching her dad leave her once beautiful mom. Other very average looking women hold high standards and are confident and well educated and marry well. They may not be vain and value other qualities more than looks.
I have a daughter who is absolutely adored by all. She has one friend who recently said she wasn’t special. My daughter immediately told her that everyone is special. We shower our daughter with love and she is such a kind sweet girl. She is so smart and kind.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had a lot of high quality suitors when I was single and in my twenties.
I am naturally thin with large breasts. I have a pretty face, nice legs and great hair. I’m ivy educated. I always look polished. I wasn’t the prettiest but I was able to attract and more importantly keep the guys. I’m pleasant and a good conversationalist.
So if you are pretty, nice figure, smart and well educated, you are a good catch.
All of those are important, but I'd prefer a state university gal over ivy educated.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I see this referenced here a lot, especially in regards to high value men. Can anyone elaborate?
Family: Emotionally and financially stable family with no racism, addiction, bankruptcy, debt, legal issues. Good marital and parenting role models.
Person: Emotionally stable. Interest in sex. Well educated and well employed. Good nature and good ethics. No serious prior relationship baggage. Decent social and financial skills. No debt. No addiction. Interest and ability for parenting. Good communication skills. Even temper. Basic home running skills, at least knowing how to delegate and organize work.
Not necessarily in that order.
I am sure you will find that. A perfect family of origin.
Anonymous wrote:I had a lot of high quality suitors when I was single and in my twenties.
I am naturally thin with large breasts. I have a pretty face, nice legs and great hair. I’m ivy educated. I always look polished. I wasn’t the prettiest but I was able to attract and more importantly keep the guys. I’m pleasant and a good conversationalist.
So if you are pretty, nice figure, smart and well educated, you are a good catch.