Anonymous wrote:I keep catching my bf looking at every woman who has a big butt. It is making me very insecure as I don’t have a big butt. How should I approach this with him? I am 35 and he is 45.
Well, just because someone finds butts, breasts, hair, eyes, legs, IQ, accent or whatever attractive but it doesn't mean they want it more than a whole package they prefer as a life partner. I find junk food and desserts appetizing but I don't want to eat it. Don't be insecure about it.
That being said, a civilization and caring person wouldn't do it as they are aware this is insensitive to their partner and person being ogled. He is no trophy, with 10 year difference, he should be more insecure than you are though for a good relationship and future together, neither partner should feel insecure, otherwise partnership isn't worth keeping.