Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^^The upper class women of my acquaintance from that region don't do affairs. Never would. Very conservative values. Or maybe things have changed, who knows, but that would have to be younger women.
Oh please. Upper class Mexican women are not saints.
No, they're not saints. They gossip like crazy, they're malicious, petty, etc. Just like anyone else. But at least in the past, they didn't do affairs unless they didn't mind supreme disapproval from the family (and gossip from all directions). I did hear of one mother who told her daughter if she was going to have affairs, that she (the mother) was cool with it as long as daughter was very discreet.
Look, I come from an aristocratic European family whose circle is also very conservative. But very conservative means discreet. It means the first rule of marriage is "do not shame your spouse in public". Not "do not cheat". This is why everyone is in a tizzy here: someone in their entourage broke the tacit agreement and now there's hell to pay.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^^The upper class women of my acquaintance from that region don't do affairs. Never would. Very conservative values. Or maybe things have changed, who knows, but that would have to be younger women.
Oh please. Upper class Mexican women are not saints.
No, they're not saints. They gossip like crazy, they're malicious, petty, etc. Just like anyone else. But at least in the past, they didn't do affairs unless they didn't mind supreme disapproval from the family (and gossip from all directions). I did hear of one mother who told her daughter if she was going to have affairs, that she (the mother) was cool with it as long as daughter was very discreet.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^^The upper class women of my acquaintance from that region don't do affairs. Never would. Very conservative values. Or maybe things have changed, who knows, but that would have to be younger women.
Oh please. Upper class Mexican women are not saints.
Anonymous wrote:^^The upper class women of my acquaintance from that region don't do affairs. Never would. Very conservative values. Or maybe things have changed, who knows, but that would have to be younger women.
Anonymous wrote:is there a conversation before marriage? Like, just don't embarrass me or I'm going to cheat and you need to be good with it?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe they really are friends. They look around the same age. Maybe they're college friends. I had male friends, and can totally see myself spending a day with one of them. Absolutely nothing would have transpired. That woman is upper class Mexican. She's not going to be having affairs, especially brazen open affairs. Her family would kill her.
Anonymous wrote:Maybe they really are friends. They look around the same age. Maybe they're college friends. I had male friends, and can totally see myself spending a day with one of them. Absolutely nothing would have transpired. That woman is upper class Mexican. She's not going to be having affairs, especially brazen open affairs. Her family would kill her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He flew to Spain to spend the day and all night with her. Of course they're having an affair.
Why would he be so brazen?