Then don't OP (initial post - "I don't want to donate cash for my office holiday party". Are we done with this thread now?

Is her Venmo private? If not, you can see what others are donating and thus see how terrible the party will be.

I bet it looks like a college rager with red solo cups, store brand soda, and bags of chips. I wouldn't donate. I don't like any of my coworkers enough to pay to hang out with them.