Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 06:43     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

False. They can learn to overcome temptation. I have.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 06:17     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:False. I became a cheater after 10 years of a sexless marriage. It tore me up, but I didn’t stop until that relationship was over. I have now been in a relationship with a healthy sex life for seven years and have never once even considered cheating, the idea revolts me.


You mean true. You came up with a justified reason to betray your wife when there were other options available, instead chose to be a revolting gaslighting liar and cheater. And if for any reason something happens to turn your head in your current marriage, you will probably fall back to your known hardwired, justifying behavior.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 06:07     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

True. Don’t delude yourselves. It’s true.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 05:50     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.


Same.

You...you refer to yourself as a cheater yet you say you're not a cheater forever?
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 05:49     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sons of cheaters have no problem with cheating.
I've encountered that twice directly.


Nor do daughters of Ho cheating mothers.

My dad was the cheater. My sisters are cheaters, my brothers are not and I am not.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 05:48     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:Sons of cheaters have no problem with cheating.
I've encountered that twice directly.

Daughters, too.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 05:41     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

False. I became a cheater after 10 years of a sexless marriage. It tore me up, but I didn’t stop until that relationship was over. I have now been in a relationship with a healthy sex life for seven years and have never once even considered cheating, the idea revolts me.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 03:24     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

True, something is very wrong with me. Likely, I’m a narcissist
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 03:21     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.

BS… I’m a cheater, tried numerous times because I know it wrong, but continue. It’s in our blood. Sux…
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 01:50     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cheating without a ring on it is not the same as cheating after marriage. I was pretty wild when single and did cheat then but would never dream of getting with a married person even during my wild days. That was a line in the sand. And I have always been faithful to my spouse. I respect the sanctity of marriage.


Sorry, if someone thinks they’re in an exclusive relationship, cheating is cheating. You don’t have to be married to cheat on someone. Unless both members of a couple agree that they are open to dating others, it is cheating to go out with someone else at the same time.

Sheesh, this seems obvious. Do some people just not have any morals at all?


It goes both ways. Women who marry known cheaters and men who cheated in the past who are habitual liars.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2023 00:10     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:Cheating without a ring on it is not the same as cheating after marriage. I was pretty wild when single and did cheat then but would never dream of getting with a married person even during my wild days. That was a line in the sand. And I have always been faithful to my spouse. I respect the sanctity of marriage.


Sorry, if someone thinks they’re in an exclusive relationship, cheating is cheating. You don’t have to be married to cheat on someone. Unless both members of a couple agree that they are open to dating others, it is cheating to go out with someone else at the same time.

Sheesh, this seems obvious. Do some people just not have any morals at all?
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:42     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Cheating without a ring on it is not the same as cheating after marriage. I was pretty wild when single and did cheat then but would never dream of getting with a married person even during my wild days. That was a line in the sand. And I have always been faithful to my spouse. I respect the sanctity of marriage.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:36     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

As a non-cheater I say true. The contrapositive is that since I have never cheated, I never cheated once. This is true.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:31     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

I had two guys cheat on me when I was young but it gave me a good excuse to dump them so it was a good thing. I wasn’t in love with them so no big deal. I’ve been married a very long time and I’d be crushed but my husbands moral code has been so high for so long I don’t worry about it but make sure he’s happy.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:26     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.


Same.