Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.
Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.
The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.
There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.
Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm really hoping they're on their way out.
My junior asked me to start looking online for dress ideas for homecoming as she's swamped with homework. There are so many pretty dresses but in the past 2 years all the girls are wearing are the micro slip dresses or body con dresses--pretty much the most boring dresses you can buy.
Is that anyone is wearing this year as well? I'm hoping kids will branch out a bit.
Hey OP, we are in the same boat. My DD is not into the micro, mini, super revealing dresses, and I'm not a big fan either. We've settled on more of a jersey/knit styles. It's casual, comfortable and makes my DD feel more relaxed. You can also try a wrap dress.
Not sure what you're going for but my DD is definitely not doing the micro mini.
Skater dresses are a good option for girls who don't want the mini/bodycon.
What's a skater dress?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm really hoping they're on their way out.
My junior asked me to start looking online for dress ideas for homecoming as she's swamped with homework. There are so many pretty dresses but in the past 2 years all the girls are wearing are the micro slip dresses or body con dresses--pretty much the most boring dresses you can buy.
Is that anyone is wearing this year as well? I'm hoping kids will branch out a bit.
Hey OP, we are in the same boat. My DD is not into the micro, mini, super revealing dresses, and I'm not a big fan either. We've settled on more of a jersey/knit styles. It's casual, comfortable and makes my DD feel more relaxed. You can also try a wrap dress.
Not sure what you're going for but my DD is definitely not doing the micro mini.
Skater dresses are a good option for girls who don't want the mini/bodycon.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.
Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.
The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.
There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.
Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.
Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.
The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.
There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.
Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.
Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Is your DS sad they won't go with him? Are you incubating a baby incel?
He likes nice girls. He has a lovely “best friend not girlfriend.”
So they are both each other’s beards?
Anonymous wrote:From DD’s group, and what I’ve seen on social media things similar to these:
https://www.forever21.com/us/2000473685.html
https://www.lulus.com/products/gift-of-love-black-and-gold-backless-long-sleeve-bodycon-dress/1667576.html
https://www.lulus.com/products/mesh-perspective-black-long-sleeve-mesh-bodycon-mini-dress/2027976.html
https://www.lulus.com/products/lover-s-game-navy-blue-lace-skater-dress/579332.html
But they’re either short, or midi/long with spaghetti straps.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.
Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm really hoping they're on their way out.
My junior asked me to start looking online for dress ideas for homecoming as she's swamped with homework. There are so many pretty dresses but in the past 2 years all the girls are wearing are the micro slip dresses or body con dresses--pretty much the most boring dresses you can buy.
Is that anyone is wearing this year as well? I'm hoping kids will branch out a bit.
Hey OP, we are in the same boat. My DD is not into the micro, mini, super revealing dresses, and I'm not a big fan either. We've settled on more of a jersey/knit styles. It's casual, comfortable and makes my DD feel more relaxed. You can also try a wrap dress.
Not sure what you're going for but my DD is definitely not doing the micro mini.
Skater dresses are a good option for girls who don't want the mini/bodycon.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DD’s hoco dress looks similar to this:
https://www.lulus.com/products/flawless-favorite-teal-halter-mini-dress/1837436.html
So yeah, mini is definitely what’s in style.
How tall is your DD? That model is 5'10' . On my DD, that dress wouldn't be a mini.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).
Is your DS sad they won't go with him? Are you incubating a baby incel?
He likes nice girls. He has a lovely “best friend not girlfriend.”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.
Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.
My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.
We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).