Anonymous
Post 09/30/2023 00:16     Subject: Close friend made a pass?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your DH is correct. Let it go. If it happens again tell dh. Guys can say things to other guys that while sounding harsh will not impact any relationship you have with the couple. If you do it the relationship will be blown.



Exactly... OP is WAY overthinkng this.
So what, he was a little candid after partaking in a little too much alc -- who hasn't been a bit too honest when their inhibitions were lowered? It's not like he outright hit on you.
You definitely mislabeled your post, because he certainly wasn't making a pass on you either, lol.

Your husband sounds awesome... we love a man who's confident and secure not only in himself, but in his relationship too.
There's absolutely nothing worse than an insecure or jealous partner.
You should be thankful he is the way he is.


Yeah no. I wouldn’t be into that. Gross. Respect boundaries! OP is his wife’s friend. So awkward and self-centered.


Not the PP, but what in the world are you talking about??? Who said anyone was "into that"??
He spoke words to her in a complimentary manner... He said she was great with his words.
OP's husband wasn't nearly as offended as you seem to be, and you and OP are making a mountain out of a molehill.
Must be wonderful being friends with you, and constantly having to walk on eggshells for fear of offending you.

Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 20:28     Subject: Close friend made a pass?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your DH is correct. Let it go. If it happens again tell dh. Guys can say things to other guys that while sounding harsh will not impact any relationship you have with the couple. If you do it the relationship will be blown.



Exactly... OP is WAY overthinkng this.
So what, he was a little candid after partaking in a little too much alc -- who hasn't been a bit too honest when their inhibitions were lowered? It's not like he outright hit on you.
You definitely mislabeled your post, because he certainly wasn't making a pass on you either, lol.

Your husband sounds awesome... we love a man who's confident and secure not only in himself, but in his relationship too.
There's absolutely nothing worse than an insecure or jealous partner.
You should be thankful he is the way he is.


Yeah no. I wouldn’t be into that. Gross. Respect boundaries! OP is his wife’s friend. So awkward and self-centered.
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 19:06     Subject: Close friend made a pass?
Anonymous wrote:Your DH is correct. Let it go. If it happens again tell dh. Guys can say things to other guys that while sounding harsh will not impact any relationship you have with the couple. If you do it the relationship will be blown.



Exactly... OP is WAY overthinkng this.
So what, he was a little candid after partaking in a little too much alc -- who hasn't been a bit too honest when their inhibitions were lowered? It's not like he outright hit on you.
You definitely mislabeled your post, because he certainly wasn't making a pass on you either, lol.

Your husband sounds awesome... we love a man who's confident and secure not only in himself, but in his relationship too.
There's absolutely nothing worse than an insecure or jealous partner.
You should be thankful he is the way he is.
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2023 18:34     Subject: Close friend made a pass?
Umm I’m not seeing the pass here, is it the “wish I met you first” thing or the 3 second hug?

Let me guess you think anyone who holds a door or nods and smiles is hitting on you?
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2023 08:31     Subject: Close friend made a pass?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:These responses are so amazing to me bc when I posted about a friend DH who put his hand on my ass while overserved, the unanimous cry was to dump the couple & never speak to either again.


These are not the same thing.


What was wrong with the hug? Maybe he did grab her ass.
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2023 21:06     Subject: Re:Close friend made a pass?
Bravo to your husband for the right perspective and having confidence in your relationship. If it happens again trust that he will deal with it.
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2023 20:38     Subject: Re:Close friend made a pass?
Anonymous wrote:Get over yourself, OP. He was drunk. Let it go unless it happens again.

WTH are you and the poster assuring op she isn't "special", talking about? She is creeped out, that doesn't mean she feels special. There is no pleasure from this.

The rest of the advice here is pretty spot on!