Anonymous wrote:26 is the right time to get married for women because 30 is old for baby risk and even conceiving. Tiktok at you mid to late 20s, man can have baby past 50

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Anonymous wrote:Chris Evans dated a few different women fairly seriously in his youth, and none of them has ever said a bad word about him. Jessica Biel and Jenny Slate were two of his most serious dating relationships.

He was once quoted in an interview as saying: "I definitely want children. I definitely want a family. But you cannot put the cart before the horse,” he told USA Today after his split from Slate. “The family only works if it’s built off the extension of the love you feel for a person. If you all of a sudden want the kid more than you want the relationship, you may be on shaky ground."

Chris's parents divorced, which was a difficult experience for him and his three siblings. Many children of divorce and dysfunctional marriage are more risk averse about marriage and family - there isn't anything wrong with that, it's a healthy adaptation so long as it is not taken to extreme.

I have always found it utterly bizarre how people who have been married multiple times or are in lackluster or dysfunctional marriages (which ultimately DO harm their kids) are somehow considered more 'normal' than people who wait for the right time and the right one, or who eschew marriage altogether.

This board is rife with women and men lamenting their wrong spouses and loveless, sexless, unhappy marriages. People who refuse to see that staying in those situations is harming their kids even absent physical abuse in the marriage. And then they point at those of us who wait and call us immature.

+1. So many people consider it a goal and an accomplishment to be married by a certain age, and they pay more attention to checking off boxes and reaching a goal than to the actual person they are marrying.

I wish them the best, but he’s 42 and she’s 26- that’s less “taking his time to choose carefully” as much as it is a cliche. Wasn’t Siena Miller (age 40? 42?) just flamed on this board a few weeks ago for getting pregnant with her 26 year old boyfriend and essentially called a cradle robber? Here Chris Evans gets +1s and high fives for “waiting until he found” his 26 year old spouse. Can’t make up this hypocrisy!

+1, so many incels and women who hate themselves on dcum!

Anonymous wrote:26 is the right time to get married for women because 30 is old for baby risk and even conceiving. Tiktok at you mid to late 20s, man can have baby past 50

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

No, she’s probably someone who got married at 23 and thinks that it makes her superior and that it was some major accomplishment.

Nah. I know you feel more comfortable with trying to put someone in a box and stereotype, but I was the same age as Alba when I got married and my DH is the same age as me not some old geezer.

So if you are going to ironically flex about getting married in your 20s, then please tell us: is your DH as hot, rich, and famous as Chris Evans (who is hardly a “geezer”)? We’ll wait. Lol.

We did not start out rich and are now. My DH is better looking than Chris Evans. Evans is nice looking but not " hot" as you described him.

Sure, honey.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

No, she’s probably someone who got married at 23 and thinks that it makes her superior and that it was some major accomplishment.

Nah. I know you feel more comfortable with trying to put someone in a box and stereotype, but I was the same age as Alba when I got married and my DH is the same age as me not some old geezer.

So if you are going to ironically flex about getting married in your 20s, then please tell us: is your DH as hot, rich, and famous as Chris Evans (who is hardly a “geezer”)? We’ll wait. Lol.

We did not start out rich and are now. My DH is better looking than Chris Evans. Evans is nice looking but not " hot" as you described him.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

No, she’s probably someone who got married at 23 and thinks that it makes her superior and that it was some major accomplishment.

Nah. I know you feel more comfortable with trying to put someone in a box and stereotype, but I was the same age as Alba when I got married and my DH is the same age as me not some old geezer.

So if you are going to ironically flex about getting married in your 20s, then please tell us: is your DH as hot, rich, and famous as Chris Evans (who is hardly a “geezer”)? We’ll wait. Lol.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

No, she’s probably someone who got married at 23 and thinks that it makes her superior and that it was some major accomplishment.

Nah. I know you feel more comfortable with trying to put someone in a box and stereotype, but I was the same age as Alba when I got married and my DH is the same age as me not some old geezer.

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Anonymous wrote:Chris Evans dated a few different women fairly seriously in his youth, and none of them has ever said a bad word about him. Jessica Biel and Jenny Slate were two of his most serious dating relationships.

He was once quoted in an interview as saying: "I definitely want children. I definitely want a family. But you cannot put the cart before the horse,” he told USA Today after his split from Slate. “The family only works if it’s built off the extension of the love you feel for a person. If you all of a sudden want the kid more than you want the relationship, you may be on shaky ground."

Chris's parents divorced, which was a difficult experience for him and his three siblings. Many children of divorce and dysfunctional marriage are more risk averse about marriage and family - there isn't anything wrong with that, it's a healthy adaptation so long as it is not taken to extreme.

I have always found it utterly bizarre how people who have been married multiple times or are in lackluster or dysfunctional marriages (which ultimately DO harm their kids) are somehow considered more 'normal' than people who wait for the right time and the right one, or who eschew marriage altogether.

This board is rife with women and men lamenting their wrong spouses and loveless, sexless, unhappy marriages. People who refuse to see that staying in those situations is harming their kids even absent physical abuse in the marriage. And then they point at those of us who wait and call us immature.

+1. So many people consider it a goal and an accomplishment to be married by a certain age, and they pay more attention to checking off boxes and reaching a goal than to the actual person they are marrying.

I wish them the best, but he’s 42 and she’s 26- that’s less “taking his time to choose carefully” as much as it is a cliche. Wasn’t Siena Miller (age 40? 42?) just flamed on this board a few weeks ago for getting pregnant with her 26 year old boyfriend and essentially called a cradle robber? Here Chris Evans gets +1s and high fives for “waiting until he found” his 26 year old spouse. Can’t make up this hypocrisy!

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

No, she’s probably someone who got married at 23 and thinks that it makes her superior and that it was some major accomplishment.

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Anonymous wrote:Chris Evans dated a few different women fairly seriously in his youth, and none of them has ever said a bad word about him. Jessica Biel and Jenny Slate were two of his most serious dating relationships.

He was once quoted in an interview as saying: "I definitely want children. I definitely want a family. But you cannot put the cart before the horse,” he told USA Today after his split from Slate. “The family only works if it’s built off the extension of the love you feel for a person. If you all of a sudden want the kid more than you want the relationship, you may be on shaky ground."

Chris's parents divorced, which was a difficult experience for him and his three siblings. Many children of divorce and dysfunctional marriage are more risk averse about marriage and family - there isn't anything wrong with that, it's a healthy adaptation so long as it is not taken to extreme.

I have always found it utterly bizarre how people who have been married multiple times or are in lackluster or dysfunctional marriages (which ultimately DO harm their kids) are somehow considered more 'normal' than people who wait for the right time and the right one, or who eschew marriage altogether.

This board is rife with women and men lamenting their wrong spouses and loveless, sexless, unhappy marriages. People who refuse to see that staying in those situations is harming their kids even absent physical abuse in the marriage. And then they point at those of us who wait and call us immature.

+1. So many people consider it a goal and an accomplishment to be married by a certain age, and they pay more attention to checking off boxes and reaching a goal than to the actual person they are marrying.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

PP is right. What self respecting, mature person marries for the first time at 42?

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares? He waited until he was 100 or so to get married.

Are you 12?

Does not matter, both are ugly.

She's gorgeous, but (still) pictures don't do her justice. I just watched Mrs. Harris go to Paris, where she has a big role - she is extraordinarily attractive there.

Anonymous wrote:For some reason I’m very curious about this! My guess is no—that it’s true love and they want a normal life. But is that naive?

Anonymous wrote:Chris Evans dated a few different women fairly seriously in his youth, and none of them has ever said a bad word about him. Jessica Biel and Jenny Slate were two of his most serious dating relationships.

He was once quoted in an interview as saying: "I definitely want children. I definitely want a family. But you cannot put the cart before the horse,” he told USA Today after his split from Slate. “The family only works if it’s built off the extension of the love you feel for a person. If you all of a sudden want the kid more than you want the relationship, you may be on shaky ground."

Chris's parents divorced, which was a difficult experience for him and his three siblings. Many children of divorce and dysfunctional marriage are more risk averse about marriage and family - there isn't anything wrong with that, it's a healthy adaptation so long as it is not taken to extreme.

I have always found it utterly bizarre how people who have been married multiple times or are in lackluster or dysfunctional marriages (which ultimately DO harm their kids) are somehow considered more 'normal' than people who wait for the right time and the right one, or who eschew marriage altogether.

This board is rife with women and men lamenting their wrong spouses and loveless, sexless, unhappy marriages. People who refuse to see that staying in those situations is harming their kids even absent physical abuse in the marriage. And then they point at those of us who wait and call us immature.