We remodeled our upstairs last year, converting a large unused closet into a 8x8 tiled shower area with an overhead shower head and a handheld shower wand. I love that shower wand! Warm water flowing, vibrating, right place, right time, holding tight to my DH while he focuses on my other very sensitive areas…

Anonymous wrote:As a woman, I never understood, wanting to have $ex in water. It takes away from my natural moisture or something. I would only shower with my husband if we had two shower heads so somebody would not be left out in the cold. We are both very attracted to each other, and have showered together in the past, but I discovered quickly that was not my favorite venue to be with my spouse.

DW here and I love shower sex. Solves periods, for one. I’m going to keep it non-explicit and stop here but recommend giving it another chance!

Definitely. We re-did our master bathroom and designed the shower (multiple shower heads) for this purpose. Sometimes we just chat, which is fun, but more frequently we do much more.

Yes, every night. I love it so much!

As a woman, I never understood, wanting to have $ex in water. It takes away from my natural moisture or something. I would only shower with my husband if we had two shower heads so somebody would not be left out in the cold. We are both very attracted to each other, and have showered together in the past, but I discovered quickly that was not my favorite venue to be with my spouse.

Anonymous wrote:We smash in the swimming pool instead.

We just set up the sprinklers outside and after the super soakers run out, we smash on the slip-n-slide.

Nooo I need the water blasting on me at all times. If we had a big shower with two shower heads then we probably would, but it’s just a regular shower.

We try to at least 3-4 mornings a week.

We’ve been doing it since we were newly weds in our mid20s. As often as we can. Early 40s. Shower system with three heads on two controls in our master bathroom. Benches and the works. The shower is about 6 feet by 5 feet.

We recently redid the showers in our kids three bathrooms all at once and even after it was done the two with small showers are always asking to use our shower. They aren’t old enough to figure out the purpose of the large shower.

Was just on vacation with the ILs and I got to see my BIL and SIL go in the bathroom together - they were both in towels.

It was a visual I can't unsee.

We smash in the swimming pool instead.

I used to. It was intimate. Sometimes sexual. Mostly a way to connect that felt good with the water running over both of us, a gentle few minutes of escape together

No DH is a big guy and we can not both fit comfortably in our shower

Before kids, yes, often.

But interest just disappeared and life got busy.

Plus, embarrassed about my body, post children, and no longer attracted to DD in that way.

Would rather have my privacy alone in the shower.

Anonymous wrote:In my 20s I did that. How old are you guys?

43 DH and still love “washing” each other.