Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:34     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:CALL HER and TELL her all the nasty things you guys did together, she asked so give her what she wants! Hold nothing back.


Agree with this. Detail about how he ejaculated inside of you and you just missed your period.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:20     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You assumed he was divorced or he told you he was divorced?

Who knocked up his wife?


It’s not unreasonable to assume that a guy who asks you out is single.


We basically had a one night stand but then continued doing it. He said they weren’t together but the wife’s baby is his.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:11     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is why casual dating is a bad idea.


What do you suggest, Aunt Pittypat? Arranged marriage?


Don’t you think there’s a reasonable solution somewhere between the extremes?
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:08     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:I'm a veteran Tinder/Hinge dater and have heard this story three times on first dates from women describing a previous relationship.

Two of the times were right after the pandemic, so the men could get away with only hanging out at her place saying "restaurants aren't safe and my roommates don't want guests to come over."

The other commonality is believing them when they say they don't have social media due to a job issue. Essentially, you're setting yourself up unless you see where they live, meet their friends and view their socials.


x100000 Nailed it.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:07     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:I’d be completely honest with her about your relationship with her husband. She deserves to know the truth.


+1

Give her information she can use against him, for the sake of both of you women, OP.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:06     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is why casual dating is a bad idea.


What do you suggest, Aunt Pittypat? Arranged marriage?


Not aunt pittypat 🤣🤣🤣 hilarious

But agree. People need to back off op.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 14:02     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
CALL HER and TELL her all the nasty things you guys did together, she asked so give her what she wants! Hold nothing back.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 13:36     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
I'm a veteran Tinder/Hinge dater and have heard this story three times on first dates from women describing a previous relationship.

Two of the times were right after the pandemic, so the men could get away with only hanging out at her place saying "restaurants aren't safe and my roommates don't want guests to come over."

The other commonality is believing them when they say they don't have social media due to a job issue. Essentially, you're setting yourself up unless you see where they live, meet their friends and view their socials.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 13:24     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:I don't get the people on here blaming OP. So not her fault. The fault clearly lies in the guy who KNEW he was married and did not disclose it.


Nope, not blaming OP for his scuminess. But it's fair to note that this is a time for OP to reassess whether her radar is working, too.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 12:28     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:This is why casual dating is a bad idea.


What do you suggest, Aunt Pittypat? Arranged marriage?
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 12:17     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
I would ask the wife if she needs any evidence, and then send anything I have over if she wants it.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 12:17     Subject: Re:Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
I don't get the people on here blaming OP. So not her fault. The fault clearly lies in the guy who KNEW he was married and did not disclose it.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 12:02     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op how do you casually assume any strange man you date is single?

Try keeping your legs closed and actually verify if the guy is really single. Marriage is a public record.


Kinda harsh commentary.
OP did nothing wrong other than a failure to verify, which isn’t unusual.
It’s sad that a single woman can’t be trusting and must assume the worst in people (men) they meet.


Waiting to have sex, while utterly unfashionable now, actually creates some time to get to know a man enough you might spot some red flags. He'd have to, you know, actually talk with you, take you places in public maybe, act like he's dating a person rather than just killing time on a few initial dates until he can get you into bed. While OP did nothing wrong, well, she needs to learn how to spot red flags and/or ask the right questions, long before sex starts.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 11:37     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Anonymous wrote:Op how do you casually assume any strange man you date is single?

Try keeping your legs closed and actually verify if the guy is really single. Marriage is a public record.


Kinda harsh commentary.
OP did nothing wrong other than a failure to verify, which isn’t unusual.
It’s sad that a single woman can’t be trusting and must assume the worst in people (men) they meet.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2023 11:13     Subject: Guy I was dating was married and wife’s pregnant
Op how do you casually assume any strange man you date is single?

Try keeping your legs closed and actually verify if the guy is really single. Marriage is a public record.