Anonymous
Post 08/11/2023 17:16     Subject: Re:how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
I’m not as altruistic as other PPs. My DD dated a total complete dud. No Brains. No personality. No motivation. No drive to do anything or be anyone. Except video games he was big on video games and skateboarding. He did NOT win us over and we just knew the relationship would end eventually bc our DD is completely the opposite. New BF is night and day different smart driven kind affectionate funny. A better match all around. They didn’t DO anything to win us over. They just ARE a better match.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2023 13:52     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There are enough threads about how you ended up hating your sons girlfriend/daughters boyfriend, but if you like them, what have they done to gain your support? (Thread idea credit: Reddit)


Well, they didn't need to do anything. I accept them for who they are as part of the relationship.


+1
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2023 13:52     Subject: Re:how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:He did her taxes. They've broken up and he still does them.


He was a keeper.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 10:24     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:There are enough threads about how you ended up hating your sons girlfriend/daughters boyfriend, but if you like them, what have they done to gain your support? (Thread idea credit: Reddit)


Well, they didn't need to do anything. I accept them for who they are as part of the relationship.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 10:21     Subject: Re:how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
He did her taxes. They've broken up and he still does them.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 09:07     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Never cared or tried to win over in-laws. Just treated everyone like equal adults with respect. Worked out fine.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2023 09:32     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
*loves
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2023 09:32     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
I would be totally happy with anyone who lives and cares for mine and makes them happy.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2023 09:30     Subject: Re:how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:
It's sad reading some of these replies. Doesn't look like it takes much to win over you people


As parents, we shouldn't need to be "won over". We respect our DS & DD


No they certainly don't have to win anyone over. I agree.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2023 09:28     Subject: Re:how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:My son loves her, and I love my son.


❤️
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2023 09:28     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Anonymous wrote:Rich and attractive young man won us over


Rich and attractive can be abusive or alcoholic so while being someone who looks good and can pay his bills are big positives, there must be some personality traits which won you over.
Anonymous
Post 07/31/2023 22:55     Subject: how did your son/daughter's SO win you over?
Rich and attractive young man won us over