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Anonymous wrote:Ahhhh are you that crazy poster who obsesses over her exhusband dating a plus sized woman?

No, she is not the candle poster who uses vulgar phrases, and writes in manic run-on sentences . I think this is the same poster who starts multiple threads about what men like and what they don’t and how to snag a wealthy man. This woman could have used all this wasted energy for professional development by now and not have to worry about these hypothetical rich men and their preferences.

^cankle

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Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Your DH is gay.

Spend his money sister, with no explanations. Buy what you like. You’ve earned it listening to his sh*tty sartorial sermons. What’s he going to do? 34 years is a lot of time to amass marital/community property. Ask him if he wants to be subdivided, if not, he should consider shutting the eff up.

Anonymous wrote:Ahhhh are you that crazy poster who obsesses over her exhusband dating a plus sized woman?

No, she is not the candle poster who uses vulgar phrases, and writes in manic run-on sentences . I think this is the same poster who starts multiple threads about what men like and what they don’t and how to snag a wealthy man. This woman could have used all this wasted energy for professional development by now and not have to worry about these hypothetical rich men and their preferences.

Men do care about how women dress but they’re often ignorant to their own preferences. For example they’ll answer I’m surveys that a woman with a full face of makeup isn’t wearing any. They also will find a woman alluring who is wearing a sundress and espadrilles but won’t themselves know why. Waitresses also report they get bigger tips when they have a bow in their hair, but safe to say no man realizes that’s why.

I’ve found many small tweaks to my appearance change how men receive me. Delicate jewelry, feminine accessories, pastels or bright colors over the business casual staples palette of black navy and grey, blonde highlights.

Next time you’re at a typical DC gathering, look around at how many women just look dull and boring. It’s quite easy to look comparatively feminine.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Your DH is gay.

Yup, and he likes his beard to be just so! I’m sensing more throw pillows on his side of the bed that hers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Your DH is gay.

Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

Not true

It's complicated and I know it's because of his own insecurities. I'm a pretty confident person who doesn't need someone's approval all the time although sometimes it would be nice. I have nice clothes it's not that people tear others down, so they feel better about themselves.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Why would you marry someone who hated your style from day 1. If someone shit on my clothes on day 1, there wouldn't be a day 2.

Haha apparently. Btw I don't feel I have bad taste in clothes I get compliments all the time. It's just not his taste I presume.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Is your taste in men even worse than your taste in clothes?

Anonymous wrote:Men have no idea what you are wearing. All they care about is your body, hair and complexion.

I wish this were true. Mine has complained from day one that he does not like my style. He often tells me to return things and comments on how I would look much better if he were my fashion consultant. Of course he never offers advice, just complaints. He is a fashion snob and I will never be able to dress as well as he does. I don't have the budget to afford the quality clothing brands he does. Of course if I do buy something expensive I'm always asked what I bought and why. I just chalk it up to verbal abuse but after 34 years I guess I'm used to it and just wear what I want. Off topic but when you marry someone with money they always act superior. Kinda at my wits end but at this point whatever.

Tube top and Daisy Dukes with some platform sandals!

Like Lauren Sanchez

Anonymous wrote:First time I met DH I was 17 and wearing a friend's catholic school skirt and a v-neck t shirt and Chucks. He was wearing jeans and a t-shirt and Vans.

This could be a moment in my life!