Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have heard teachers make stereotypical comments about Asian American students in social settings and sporting events many times. I have also had parents say things to me and about me (an American born person of Indian heritage) that are based on stereotypes. It’s very hurtful and I didn’t experience this in the midwest probably because thwre were fewer Asian American students in my area and people were not concerned about “cultural” changed. This area is tough.
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you've described a school that selects URMs. That's not anti-AAPI bias.
Fwiw, there a number of AAPI students in FCPS of different backgrounds and some are high achieving and others are average. Don't have all the same concerns.
It is biased if the selection is not based on merit.
Anonymous wrote:I have heard teachers make stereotypical comments about Asian American students in social settings and sporting events many times. I have also had parents say things to me and about me (an American born person of Indian heritage) that are based on stereotypes. It’s very hurtful and I didn’t experience this in the midwest probably because thwre were fewer Asian American students in my area and people were not concerned about “cultural” changed. This area is tough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Absolutely -- white people think all Asians are smart and are going to succeed. My Indian child who is behind in both reading and math gets COMPLETELY ignored in school whereas her white counterparts get extra pull outs. I've complained and am told my child is fine and "stop stressing about your kid getting into TJ". <-- My kid is obviously not going to get into TJ and it's super racist of people to make that assumption.
It is not so obvious anymore.
WTF? An asian kid behind in reading and math won't get into TJ because there aren't enough white kids there.
Anonymous wrote:I have heard teachers make stereotypical comments about Asian American students in social settings and sporting events many times. I have also had parents say things to me and about me (an American born person of Indian heritage) that are based on stereotypes. It’s very hurtful and I didn’t experience this in the midwest probably because thwre were fewer Asian American students in my area and people were not concerned about “cultural” changed. This area is tough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Absolutely -- white people think all Asians are smart and are going to succeed. My Indian child who is behind in both reading and math gets COMPLETELY ignored in school whereas her white counterparts get extra pull outs. I've complained and am told my child is fine and "stop stressing about your kid getting into TJ". <-- My kid is obviously not going to get into TJ and it's super racist of people to make that assumption.
It is not so obvious anymore.
WTF? An asian kid behind in reading and math won't get into TJ because there aren't enough white kids there.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Absolutely -- white people think all Asians are smart and are going to succeed. My Indian child who is behind in both reading and math gets COMPLETELY ignored in school whereas her white counterparts get extra pull outs. I've complained and am told my child is fine and "stop stressing about your kid getting into TJ". <-- My kid is obviously not going to get into TJ and it's super racist of people to make that assumption.
It is not so obvious anymore.
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely -- white people think all Asians are smart and are going to succeed. My Indian child who is behind in both reading and math gets COMPLETELY ignored in school whereas her white counterparts get extra pull outs. I've complained and am told my child is fine and "stop stressing about your kid getting into TJ". <-- My kid is obviously not going to get into TJ and it's super racist of people to make that assumption.
Anonymous wrote:We are at a school with a significant percentage of Asian-American students but mostly white teachers. We've noticed over the past year that when teachers have a choice to choose students for leadership positions such as for panels, if they have a request from an outside entity for students to speak with, student hosts for assemblies, or for leaders for class project they are not selecting AAPI students. It's really striking and when parents first brought this up to us I was skeptical but then we saw it happen again and again. They will choose students from other minority groups who comprise only a small percentage of students at the school so it is not all white students who are being chosen.
We moved to the area from California where we were at a school with a similar percentage of AAPI students and did not see this issue. What is going on? Is it just gross stereotyping that AAPI students are not good leaders or speakers? Are we just at a terrible school?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are at a school with a significant percentage of Asian-American students but mostly white teachers. We've noticed over the past year that when teachers have a choice to choose students for leadership positions such as for panels, if they have a request from an outside entity for students to speak with, student hosts for assemblies, or for leaders for class project they are not selecting AAPI students. It's really striking and when parents first brought this up to us I was skeptical but then we saw it happen again and again. They will choose students from other minority groups who comprise only a small percentage of students at the school so it is not all white students who are being chosen.
We moved to the area from California where we were at a school with a similar percentage of AAPI students and did not see this issue. What is going on? Is it just gross stereotyping that AAPI students are not good leaders or speakers? Are we just at a terrible school?
You are overthinking this. I’m so tired of these flimsy, racist threads.
What is OP overthinking? She noticed a disturbing trend and reporting it. Stop gaslighting her/him!
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely -- white people think all Asians are smart and are going to succeed. My Indian child who is behind in both reading and math gets COMPLETELY ignored in school whereas her white counterparts get extra pull outs. I've complained and am told my child is fine and "stop stressing about your kid getting into TJ". <-- My kid is obviously not going to get into TJ and it's super racist of people to make that assumption.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are at a school with a significant percentage of Asian-American students but mostly white teachers. We've noticed over the past year that when teachers have a choice to choose students for leadership positions such as for panels, if they have a request from an outside entity for students to speak with, student hosts for assemblies, or for leaders for class project they are not selecting AAPI students. It's really striking and when parents first brought this up to us I was skeptical but then we saw it happen again and again. They will choose students from other minority groups who comprise only a small percentage of students at the school so it is not all white students who are being chosen.
We moved to the area from California where we were at a school with a similar percentage of AAPI students and did not see this issue. What is going on? Is it just gross stereotyping that AAPI students are not good leaders or speakers? Are we just at a terrible school?
Yes, OP, we see that too, in our daughter's private school in the New England area. The only prize my daughter this year was in a sport she excels in, and it was for "not complaining" - probably because she kept her disappointment to herself when she was passed over for team captain for a WM. The coach said he "needed leadership opportunities to get into college." OP, I didn't hear you complaining that other minorities were doing better, just that Asian kids were left out. We see the same pattern, where white kids and non-Asian minorities get most of the opportunities.