Anonymous wrote:What about a gift certificate for a couples massage so she can go with her daughter.
No, some people don't want strangers touching them like that and some massages are just not well done.
OP a heartfelt note is the most important thing. Then I would just stick to what you know she will want and use. If you know she loves a particular store, get a gift card. You don't want to impose what you or DCUM thinks is special on her. If you know she loves a certain type of flowers or plant include that too. Don't put her in the uncomfortable position of saying "thank you" for some indulgence she might never use just because everyone here swears it's the best.