Anonymous wrote:He probably won’t even remember the trip honestly. You’re overthinking this.
Anonymous wrote:DH's family lived in Boston, and we're finally getting up there this summer for a leisure visit (i.e., not a funeral or graduation or "work"). DS9 has been talking about wanting to go to Harvard, and DH thinks it's ok to swing by the campus and let him explore a bit. I think this is a terrible idea. Don't want him getting his heart set on it. Would you encourage a child in this way, even tacitly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So OP, you are essentially saying, taking any 9 year old kid to visit Harvard is a bad idea?
No, I disagree.
I'm trying to imagine my immigrant parents being told, "don't take your kid to Harvard because gee whiz, they may be triggered when they can't reach that lofty goal!"
LMAO
Your parents encouraged college dreams when you were 9?![]()
Mine did and I did actually end up going to Harvard lol.
Anonymous wrote:DH's family lived in Boston, and we're finally getting up there this summer for a leisure visit (i.e., not a funeral or graduation or "work"). DS9 has been talking about wanting to go to Harvard, and DH thinks it's ok to swing by the campus and let him explore a bit. I think this is a terrible idea. Don't want him getting his heart set on it. Would you encourage a child in this way, even tacitly?
Anonymous wrote:This is hilarious. There was a similar post a few months back and everybody mocked the OP for doing a college tour with a 9 year old
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So OP, you are essentially saying, taking any 9 year old kid to visit Harvard is a bad idea?
No, I disagree.
I'm trying to imagine my immigrant parents being told, "don't take your kid to Harvard because gee whiz, they may be triggered when they can't reach that lofty goal!"
LMAO
Your parents encouraged college dreams when you were 9?![]()