Anonymous wrote:My neighbor's boy, who is at the same grade as my son, won't come to our house after school because we don't have video games. He has an older brother and our boy is our first. So we haven't caved to buy him a video game yet. My son's cousin (same age) got one, and my son kept asking us to take him to the cousin's house. But when he plays he's so bad at it his cousin won't let him have the control.
We clearly failed our son. I buy him lots of pokemon cards, at least it's not video games, I tell myself.
Controlling video games is success, not failure. We do not allow video games in our house, and that will not change at any age. We will buy nearly any book and pay for any reasonable age-appropriate magazine.