Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just here to say I'm super jealous -- just had to wrangle my toddler whose daycare was closed. Thankfully it's a shorter spring break than public schools but I long for the quiet bliss of empty nest.
Your poor child. Why have them at all?
Just say you hate working mothers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just here to say I'm super jealous -- just had to wrangle my toddler whose daycare was closed. Thankfully it's a shorter spring break than public schools but I long for the quiet bliss of empty nest.
Your poor child. Why have them at all?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here -- Our Easter plan now includes seeing the bluebells at River Bend park! Thanks for that great suggestion as well as the other posts. For those who are surprised that our kids aren't coming home, I'd just say that while we're a close-knit family and are churchgoers, it's sometimes simply not possible for college students and older adult kids to make it home for a holiday. The distance might be too far or school and work schedules might not permit them to travel. We feel fortunate to have seen all four kids two weeks ago for a family event. That's like an Easter miracle when you have one on the west coast, one in medical residency and two who are college students and athletes attending school out of state!
Your Easter plans should include learning to communicate without bragging about your children. I can see why no one invites you to do things with them.
Anonymous wrote:Just here to say I'm super jealous -- just had to wrangle my toddler whose daycare was closed. Thankfully it's a shorter spring break than public schools but I long for the quiet bliss of empty nest.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here -- Our Easter plan now includes seeing the bluebells at River Bend park! Thanks for that great suggestion as well as the other posts. For those who are surprised that our kids aren't coming home, I'd just say that while we're a close-knit family and are churchgoers, it's sometimes simply not possible for college students and older adult kids to make it home for a holiday. The distance might be too far or school and work schedules might not permit them to travel. We feel fortunate to have seen all four kids two weeks ago for a family event. That's like an Easter miracle when you have one on the west coast, one in medical residency and two who are college students and athletes attending school out of state!
Your Easter plans should include learning to communicate without bragging about your children. I can see why no one invites you to do things with them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:we're a close-knit family and are churchgoers, it's sometimes simply not possible for college students and older adult kids to make it home for a holiday.
There are pros to this. Young adult children can strike out, find their own church, and then celebrate a major religious holiday in a new spiritual "home." In an age of helicopter parenting and college students who are in touch multiple times per week with their parents, this is healthy.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait - college kids don’t come home for Easter??? I am so dreading this.
Why are you assuming OP's kids are in college?
Anonymous wrote:we're a close-knit family and are churchgoers, it's sometimes simply not possible for college students and older adult kids to make it home for a holiday.