Anonymous
Post 03/28/2023 14:14     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:Dunno about the principal but my friend just transferred her daughter to my daughter’s elementary school. Her son is still in Oakridge. She was literally crying when she was telling me how terrible Oakridge is. Rampant bullying. No discipline. Principal who doesn’t care that her child was being bullied. Children watching porn on bus with iPad. She said so much more but that’s what I remember.


PP here. I just remembered her biggest complaint. No teacher for her 3rd grader until December I think or maybe January. Kid learned nothing all semester and barely did any work.
Anonymous
Post 03/28/2023 14:12     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Dunno about the principal but my friend just transferred her daughter to my daughter’s elementary school. Her son is still in Oakridge. She was literally crying when she was telling me how terrible Oakridge is. Rampant bullying. No discipline. Principal who doesn’t care that her child was being bullied. Children watching porn on bus with iPad. She said so much more but that’s what I remember.
Anonymous
Post 03/26/2023 08:08     Subject: Re:Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My kids are at Oakridge and I have no idea what people on here are talking about. I’m not debating the accuracy of their posts I’m just literally saying: I have no idea what the alleged issues are. I have many parent friends at the school, multiple kids at the school, attend and volunteer at pretty much every event parents can attend, and I have no issues with the principal or understanding of why others do. We are having a great experience at Oakridge, and this neighborhood is awesome.


I’m very happy to hear this, and I’m not surprised. I think with this principal things are fine until they aren’t, and then they *really* are not fine.

Not to be all doom and gloom, but have you ever asked your child if they have gotten yelled at? Or if they have always had a teacher in the room? You can also ask if they have been told that they shouldn’t tell their parents things that happen at school because that’s “gossip.”



Kids are encouraged not to tell their parents what happened at school?! That is a VERY slippery slope, potentially leading kids to tolerate abusive behavior.


PP here. Sorry, I should have added that that is something I heard maybe third-hand. I believe it because of lots of other factors but you should probably not believe it unless you otherwise get confirmation.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 18:58     Subject: Re:Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My kids are at Oakridge and I have no idea what people on here are talking about. I’m not debating the accuracy of their posts I’m just literally saying: I have no idea what the alleged issues are. I have many parent friends at the school, multiple kids at the school, attend and volunteer at pretty much every event parents can attend, and I have no issues with the principal or understanding of why others do. We are having a great experience at Oakridge, and this neighborhood is awesome.


I’m very happy to hear this, and I’m not surprised. I think with this principal things are fine until they aren’t, and then they *really* are not fine.

Not to be all doom and gloom, but have you ever asked your child if they have gotten yelled at? Or if they have always had a teacher in the room? You can also ask if they have been told that they shouldn’t tell their parents things that happen at school because that’s “gossip.”



Kids are encouraged not to tell their parents what happened at school?! That is a VERY slippery slope, potentially leading kids to tolerate abusive behavior.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 17:00     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My kid is still in PK, but we are zoned for Oakridge for K. I’ve heard many people say the principal is horrible. Is this true?


What is the point of your post? You will move if an anonymous message board validates what you have heard anecdotally? Then you had best get a short stay apartment and never unpack.


I would have loved to have known about tbe principal before my kids started. I would have put my kids in an option school or, at a minimum, known what I was getting into.


Yea, this. Knowing what you’re getting into makes a big, big difference.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 16:55     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This person clearly needs help, and saddest of all is that seeing a site like this can make someone spiral. But also, they’re unlikely to ever seek help unless forced to by something like this.


Which poster are you referring to?


Maybe she’s referring to the principal?


Yes, the person this thread is about. ???
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 16:44     Subject: Re:Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:My kids are at Oakridge and I have no idea what people on here are talking about. I’m not debating the accuracy of their posts I’m just literally saying: I have no idea what the alleged issues are. I have many parent friends at the school, multiple kids at the school, attend and volunteer at pretty much every event parents can attend, and I have no issues with the principal or understanding of why others do. We are having a great experience at Oakridge, and this neighborhood is awesome.


I’m very happy to hear this, and I’m not surprised. I think with this principal things are fine until they aren’t, and then they *really* are not fine.

Not to be all doom and gloom, but have you ever asked your child if they have gotten yelled at? Or if they have always had a teacher in the room? You can also ask if they have been told that they shouldn’t tell their parents things that happen at school because that’s “gossip.”

Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 16:29     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I used to work at Oakridge and still talk to current teachers there. Toxic is the right word. Her moods change on a whim, she has made multiple teachers cry, she is an incredibly poor communicator and has burned through 3 assistant principals in 10 years. She has a clique of her favorite teachers who get preferential treatment (none of who are traditional classroom teachers) Multiple great teachers have left over the years and the good ones who stay are able to block her out. God bless them but I couldn’t do that.


I count 4 APs.
The “clique” is also known as The Disciples.

Not uncommon for APs to transition to other jobs. Ours left to become principal.


None of the 4 have become principals. 3 left for lateral moves.
One actually went back into the classroom. And this year’s left for another school in the MIDDLE OF THE YEAR. A bs explanation was given to staff and no explanation given to parents.


What was the explanation given to staff?


I was told “professional development”🙄
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 15:36     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I used to work at Oakridge and still talk to current teachers there. Toxic is the right word. Her moods change on a whim, she has made multiple teachers cry, she is an incredibly poor communicator and has burned through 3 assistant principals in 10 years. She has a clique of her favorite teachers who get preferential treatment (none of who are traditional classroom teachers) Multiple great teachers have left over the years and the good ones who stay are able to block her out. God bless them but I couldn’t do that.


I count 4 APs.
The “clique” is also known as The Disciples.

Not uncommon for APs to transition to other jobs. Ours left to become principal.


None of the 4 have become principals. 3 left for lateral moves.
One actually went back into the classroom. And this year’s left for another school in the MIDDLE OF THE YEAR. A bs explanation was given to staff and no explanation given to parents.


What was the explanation given to staff?
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 14:56     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I used to work at Oakridge and still talk to current teachers there. Toxic is the right word. Her moods change on a whim, she has made multiple teachers cry, she is an incredibly poor communicator and has burned through 3 assistant principals in 10 years. She has a clique of her favorite teachers who get preferential treatment (none of who are traditional classroom teachers) Multiple great teachers have left over the years and the good ones who stay are able to block her out. God bless them but I couldn’t do that.


I count 4 APs.
The “clique” is also known as The Disciples.

Not uncommon for APs to transition to other jobs. Ours left to become principal.


None of the 4 have become principals. 3 left for lateral moves.
One actually went back into the classroom. And this year’s left for another school in the MIDDLE OF THE YEAR. A bs explanation was given to staff and no explanation given to parents.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 14:05     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:Humiliating others, but especially kids is horrible. Absolutely unacceptable.


Yeah, I’m not interested in sending my kid to school to be screamed at.

We’re already considering private due to class sizes and dumbed-down academics in APS. Add a bad principal to the mix…
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 13:50     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My kid is still in PK, but we are zoned for Oakridge for K. I’ve heard many people say the principal is horrible. Is this true?


What is the point of your post? You will move if an anonymous message board validates what you have heard anecdotally? Then you had best get a short stay apartment and never unpack.


I would have loved to have known about tbe principal before my kids started. I would have put my kids in an option school or, at a minimum, known what I was getting into.


didn't she somehow get named principal of the year a few years back? how did that happen?
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 13:49     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I used to work at Oakridge and still talk to current teachers there. Toxic is the right word. Her moods change on a whim, she has made multiple teachers cry, she is an incredibly poor communicator and has burned through 3 assistant principals in 10 years. She has a clique of her favorite teachers who get preferential treatment (none of who are traditional classroom teachers) Multiple great teachers have left over the years and the good ones who stay are able to block her out. God bless them but I couldn’t do that.


I count 4 APs.
The “clique” is also known as The Disciples.

Not uncommon for APs to transition to other jobs. Ours left to become principal.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 13:42     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Humiliating others, but especially kids is horrible. Absolutely unacceptable.
Anonymous
Post 03/25/2023 12:38     Subject: Oakridge Principal

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a troll. Disgruntled employee?


You can ask Jeff if somebody is sick-puppeting. We aren’t, but it could hurt if you just want to satisfy your curiosity.