Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 12:27     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:Refusing to report your kid is an ethical choice if you believe thetaw enforcement as it exists is immoral, but your philosophy should apply equally to non-family/friends.


I am good with that, since I don’t believe mental health conditions are managed properly by courts.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 11:20     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends on the crime.

If they were a threat to children, for example, I absolutely would.


That’s true. I was thinking more of petty theft, cheating, doing drugs, getting into fights, hitting parents, stealing from parents, etc.


Lol no, I would not *call the police on my own child* for smoking weed, or stealing from my purse, or getting into fights. Those things are a parent’s responsibility to discipline.

Also, “cheating”? Wtf are you even talking about
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 11:12     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Refusing to report your kid is an ethical choice if you believe thetaw enforcement as it exists is immoral, but your philosophy should apply equally to non-family/friends.
Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 11:11     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Inspired by a conversation with a friend.

Would you report your child to the authorities if they commit a crime against you or others?

This is not a specific case, but a hypothetical one, but it got me thinking about unconditional love vs. duty to society.


Not reporting a criminal adult child is NOT “unconstitutional love”.

Remember the unibomber, Ted K something? His *family* reported him when no law enforcement in America could figure out who was setting the bombs. His family absolutely loved him. But they still did the right thing. It’s just what regular decent people do. I’ll never forget his mother describing how when he was a very young child, he had to be hospitalized for a long time. She said after he came home, he was never the same.

Being in early childhood development, it seems like he was horribly abused or neglected during that hospitalization.



Theodore Kaczynski was also a child prodigy who was bullied attended Harvard as a young age and as a minor was tortured by a professor working on CIA's psychological warfare research.

Like so many victims of abuse, he paid it forward to other easier targets inatead of back at his persecutors.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ted_Kaczynski

Anonymous
Post 05/10/2023 09:39     Subject: Reporting your adult child
You should hear from parents of adult children with serious mental illnesses. Parents get zero help from medical or police until there’s a violent crime. Hospitals are all about the “treat and street”.

You do know and older Alexandrian man died at the hospital two years ago? He’d been arrested and left untreated by Alexandria authorities.

I’d probably not report my kid for some crimes. It depends. You all are in la-la land if you think the government will help an adult with substance or mental illness.
Anonymous
Post 05/08/2023 20:34     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:Inspired by a conversation with a friend.

Would you report your child to the authorities if they commit a crime against you or others?

This is not a specific case, but a hypothetical one, but it got me thinking about unconditional love vs. duty to society.


Unconditional love does NOT mean enabling. It is a very stunted view of love to not understand dynamics including enabling, codependency, etc.
Anonymous
Post 05/08/2023 20:13     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Inspired by a conversation with a friend.

Would you report your child to the authorities if they commit a crime against you or others?

This is not a specific case, but a hypothetical one, but it got me thinking about unconditional love vs. duty to society.


Not reporting a criminal adult child is NOT “unconstitutional love”.

Remember the unibomber, Ted K something? His *family* reported him when no law enforcement in America could figure out who was setting the bombs. His family absolutely loved him. But they still did the right thing. It’s just what regular decent people do. I’ll never forget his mother describing how when he was a very young child, he had to be hospitalized for a long time. She said after he came home, he was never the same.

Being in early childhood development, it seems like he was horribly abused or neglected during that hospitalization.


*unconditional
Anonymous
Post 05/08/2023 20:10     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:Inspired by a conversation with a friend.

Would you report your child to the authorities if they commit a crime against you or others?

This is not a specific case, but a hypothetical one, but it got me thinking about unconditional love vs. duty to society.


Not reporting a criminal adult child is NOT “unconstitutional love”.

Remember the unibomber, Ted K something? His *family* reported him when no law enforcement in America could figure out who was setting the bombs. His family absolutely loved him. But they still did the right thing. It’s just what regular decent people do. I’ll never forget his mother describing how when he was a very young child, he had to be hospitalized for a long time. She said after he came home, he was never the same.

Being in early childhood development, it seems like he was horribly abused or neglected during that hospitalization.

Anonymous
Post 05/08/2023 19:59     Subject: Re:Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:But they could be violent outside your home and you’d protect them because they might write about you in a book?

This thread illustrates why so many nuts are out there hurting people and shooting up schools. Mommy and Daddy don’t care.


Mommy and Daddy are afraid of all the loonies who will blame them instead of the kid.
Anonymous
Post 05/08/2023 19:41     Subject: Re:Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:But they could be violent outside your home and you’d protect them because they might write about you in a book?

This thread illustrates why so many nuts are out there hurting people and shooting up schools. Mommy and Daddy don’t care.


I think the bigger threat is that they might be a target.
Anonymous
Post 04/29/2023 21:48     Subject: Re:Reporting your adult child
But they could be violent outside your home and you’d protect them because they might write about you in a book?

This thread illustrates why so many nuts are out there hurting people and shooting up schools. Mommy and Daddy don’t care.
Anonymous
Post 04/25/2023 02:39     Subject: Re:Reporting your adult child
cepheus wrote:I would think twice about it because I would then be written up in their books and they would be wondering what I did to cause my adult child to commit a crime.

On the other side of things, if they were violent with me or the other living beings in my house, I might have to.


+1
cepheus
Post 04/24/2023 14:15     Subject: Re:Reporting your adult child
I would think twice about it because I would then be written up in their books and they would be wondering what I did to cause my adult child to commit a crime.

On the other side of things, if they were violent with me or the other living beings in my house, I might have to.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2023 17:15     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d help my kid hide the body.

I mean, just kidding, but no way am I reporting petty theft or drugs or other stuff like that. I’d spend my time , energy, and money trying to get them help.



Wait until another parent helps their kid hide your body, or the body of an innocent person you care about, that they killed. Then it’s not quite as funny of a joke.


Your rewarding comprehension is terrible. Work on that.


Ummmmm.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2023 16:02     Subject: Reporting your adult child
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d help my kid hide the body.

I mean, just kidding, but no way am I reporting petty theft or drugs or other stuff like that. I’d spend my time , energy, and money trying to get them help.



Wait until another parent helps their kid hide your body, or the body of an innocent person you care about, that they killed. Then it’s not quite as funny of a joke.


Your rewarding comprehension is terrible. Work on that.