RUDE. Sorry that happened to you!

Oh, I have always been apple shaped and I get this comment at any size/weight I am. It does not bother me at all but it does create a super awkward situation, especially at work! Even though I’m not really offended there’s nothing to say that doesn’t create a dreadfully uncomfortable moment.

Don’t feel down. The female body is designed to carry fat in places and a rounded stomach is a normal variation of body type!! It’s just unfortunate that people jump to conclusions when a woman is of childbearing age.

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Anonymous wrote:Tell us what you were wearing at the time. Some tops, while loose, can be too flow-y. And, what did the person actually say to you?

I was wearing really poorly fitted jeans and a tee shirt that was pretty tight, tighter than I would normally (I was wearing a sweater over top and not planning to take it off but then the event got really hot). It was not a good look, I freely admit that. She apologized when I clarified I wasn’t pregnant; there was no confusion about what she meant.

I say this kindly, you cannot have felt good about yourself wearing that. Keep doing what you’re doing and dress so that you feel good.

No, I didn’t feel great (was not planning to take off my top layer, like I said) but I did not think I looked pregnant. I probably need to throw away those jeans though.

Throw away clothes that make you look and feel bad. I just did a clean out of my closet and gave away unflattering clothes.

Even when underweight, I have it.