Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 13:00     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
You’re not crazy but you’re also not her parent. You can say something once, “You look amazing but does that fit your office dress code?” Then you need to drop it and trust her supervisor will say something if needed.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:49     Subject: Re:Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.


X2 on trying to picture this. OP, please post a pictures, front and back, so that we can comment more inappropriately. Thank you.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:49     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
She’s not letting her boyfriend prevent her from finding her husband.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:48     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:This is bizarre. I’m an attorney and have NEVER seen another attorney dress as you’re describing. If I were her client, I would question her judgement. This is so unprofessional. Does your girlfriend have female mentors at the firm. This type of thing could derail her career.


This^. Sexy and trashy are too different genre and most women know which one is appropriate for professional setting and which one isn't.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:47     Subject: Re:Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I forgot to mention it had an open back too. Like not quite all the way down to the posterior. Somewhere between three eights and five eights of the back exposed.

Sorry, I don't really know women's fashion, so don't know what this kind of cut is called. Maybe a plunging back?

Was her bra strap showing in the back? I’m having trouble picturing this. Did she go braless or wear nip covers or are you exaggerating.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:44     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:I like it when my gf shows off her body. The idea that other men are likely lusting after her but I get to actually have her turns me on.


That's unhealthy.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:42     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:I saw my girlfriend getting ready to leave for work the other day and noticed her dress was quite...form fitting and tight. The dress was tightly hugging her posterior. She works at a corporate law firm.

I made a comment that that type of attire made me a little uncomfortable and that it didn't really seem work appropriate. She rolled her eyes, called me insecure for bringing it up and went to work.

Am I crazy here?


You sound controlling and insecure. She sounds unprofessional, not concerned about your opinion and still on a hunt for a better option. Neither of you respect each other.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 12:07     Subject: Re:Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe she was going to court? Some judges like that look.


She's not a litigator.

But separately, is that really a thing with some judges?


Just the ones with the Y chromosome.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:54     Subject: Re:Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:Maybe she was going to court? Some judges like that look.


She's not a litigator.

But separately, is that really a thing with some judges?
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:52     Subject: Re:Girlfriend w tight clothing
Maybe she was going to court? Some judges like that look.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:48     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:Is she an attorney or staff? Maybe she’s looking to trade up.


This.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:45     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yikes. If you were my BF, I would dump you for demeaning and controlling behavior, ASAP.

No BF should tell me some their negative opinion about how I dress, work or look or weigh. As my mom always used to say, “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.”


That you abide by a rule by which no one can ever tell you about yourself explains a lot about the energy emanating from your post.

You sound lovely.


hahahaha so true
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:44     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:Yikes. If you were my BF, I would dump you for demeaning and controlling behavior, ASAP.

No BF should tell me some their negative opinion about how I dress, work or look or weigh. As my mom always used to say, “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.”


That you abide by a rule by which no one can ever tell you about yourself explains a lot about the energy emanating from your post.

You sound lovely.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:38     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Yikes. If you were my BF, I would dump you for demeaning and controlling behavior, ASAP.

No BF should tell me some their negative opinion about how I dress, work or look or weigh. As my mom always used to say, “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.”
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2023 11:05     Subject: Girlfriend w tight clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Does the dress look good on her? Does it make her feel confident?


It definitely looked good on her. I immediately noticed because I saw it from the side of my eye. Made me want to give her a morning workout before work, if you know what I mean.

Op you should have conveyed the exact words to her