Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Yep, absolute worst case he won’t teach in Loudoun again for 3 years. Any other district likely doesn’t care.
Yeah, good luck with getting recommendations.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
No, you, and the other entities parents, are asses. It’s a job. He isn’t a slave and he didn’t enlist in the military.
Not OP
Learn the difference between "can" and "should". One shouldn't make their own happiness the deciding factor in every decision they make.
You aren’t the arbiter of “should.” It’s a job. He’ll quit. Deal with it.
Then I still contend that he's a selfish ass. You haven't made the case he's not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
NP here.
No, he’s not. He shouldn’t have to stay somewhere he’s miserable. Teachers don’t have to give up their own happiness, and I get really tired of hearing that we do.
OP, I know many teachers who have left mid-year. I’ve lost three in my department this year alone. Every single one who wanted to teach somewhere else is currently teaching somewhere else. There’s such a shortage of teachers right now that the penalty for breaking contract is no longer an issue.
I hope he finds somewhere he is happy.
Because he made a commitment to teach a group of students. No one is asking him to stay for years on end. It’s just a few more months. If he leaves, there are students who are left picking up the check for his so-called happiness. I’ve been teaching for over 25 years. It’s really hard. I get it. I am not happy everyday and have worked for some horrendous principals. There’s no way I ever would have left my students hanging in the middle of the year. I’ve figured out what I need to do to leave and then made my move at the end of the year.
It is hard. I completely don't think folks should have to stay where they are miserable, but it can be also so hard on the kids. My son's 2nd grade teacher left in October. She just disappeared one day, there was never a goodbye to the kids. Again, I get it is a job and folks should be allowed to leave. But the kids had been through virtual K and then messed up 1st grade and then lost their teacher in 2nd and now they still only have a long term sub, who is wonderful but it just isn't the same. A lot of the kids (including mine) really struggled in the fall after she left (including them crying and asking if they were so bad that she wanted to leave them).
Again, she had a right to leave but I really wish she had been able to talk to them about leaving before she left. So I guess I just suggest your brother talk to his students and not just disappear one day. Teachers can mean a lot to kids and it can be hard for them to just be gone one day.
Administration doesn’t allow teachers leaving mid year to “talk to the kids ahead of time.”
So they never get to say goodbye? That is hard. I guess I don't know best practices on that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Yep, absolute worst case he won’t teach in Loudoun again for 3 years. Any other district likely doesn’t care.
Yeah, good luck with getting recommendations.
We’re at a historic low in the pool of available teachers, people in teacher training programs and/or people even wanting to sub. People who may have been blackballed 10 years ago will have no problem getting jobs again.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Yep, absolute worst case he won’t teach in Loudoun again for 3 years. Any other district likely doesn’t care.
Yeah, good luck with getting recommendations.
We’re at a historic low in the pool of available teachers, people in teacher training programs and/or people even wanting to sub. People who may have been blackballed 10 years ago will have no problem getting jobs again.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Yep, absolute worst case he won’t teach in Loudoun again for 3 years. Any other district likely doesn’t care.
Yeah, good luck with getting recommendations.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Yep, absolute worst case he won’t teach in Loudoun again for 3 years. Any other district likely doesn’t care.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This will kill his career. It’s not worth it. Tell him to stick the year out.
Nope. It’s not 2019 anymore. His career will be just fine.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
No, you, and the other entities parents, are asses. It’s a job. He isn’t a slave and he didn’t enlist in the military.
Not OP
Learn the difference between "can" and "should". One shouldn't make their own happiness the deciding factor in every decision they make.
You aren’t the arbiter of “should.” It’s a job. He’ll quit. Deal with it.
Then I still contend that he's a selfish ass. You haven't made the case he's not.
Would you say this to any other type of professional? No, you wouldn’t.
Teachers are in short supply because the job is nearly impossible now. My kid’s school has already lost 7 teachers mid-year. It’s unfortunate, but I understand. If we want teachers to stay, then let’s all work together to make conditions better.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
No, you, and the other entities parents, are asses. It’s a job. He isn’t a slave and he didn’t enlist in the military.
Not OP
Learn the difference between "can" and "should". One shouldn't make their own happiness the deciding factor in every decision they make.
You aren’t the arbiter of “should.” It’s a job. He’ll quit. Deal with it.
Then I still contend that he's a selfish ass. You haven't made the case he's not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
NP here.
No, he’s not. He shouldn’t have to stay somewhere he’s miserable. Teachers don’t have to give up their own happiness, and I get really tired of hearing that we do.
OP, I know many teachers who have left mid-year. I’ve lost three in my department this year alone. Every single one who wanted to teach somewhere else is currently teaching somewhere else. There’s such a shortage of teachers right now that the penalty for breaking contract is no longer an issue.
I hope he finds somewhere he is happy.
Because he made a commitment to teach a group of students. No one is asking him to stay for years on end. It’s just a few more months. If he leaves, there are students who are left picking up the check for his so-called happiness. I’ve been teaching for over 25 years. It’s really hard. I get it. I am not happy everyday and have worked for some horrendous principals. There’s no way I ever would have left my students hanging in the middle of the year. I’ve figured out what I need to do to leave and then made my move at the end of the year.
It is hard. I completely don't think folks should have to stay where they are miserable, but it can be also so hard on the kids. My son's 2nd grade teacher left in October. She just disappeared one day, there was never a goodbye to the kids. Again, I get it is a job and folks should be allowed to leave. But the kids had been through virtual K and then messed up 1st grade and then lost their teacher in 2nd and now they still only have a long term sub, who is wonderful but it just isn't the same. A lot of the kids (including mine) really struggled in the fall after she left (including them crying and asking if they were so bad that she wanted to leave them).
Again, she had a right to leave but I really wish she had been able to talk to them about leaving before she left. So I guess I just suggest your brother talk to his students and not just disappear one day. Teachers can mean a lot to kids and it can be hard for them to just be gone one day.
Administration doesn’t allow teachers leaving mid year to “talk to the kids ahead of time.”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
No, you, and the other entities parents, are asses. It’s a job. He isn’t a slave and he didn’t enlist in the military.
Not OP
Learn the difference between "can" and "should". One shouldn't make their own happiness the deciding factor in every decision they make.
You aren’t the arbiter of “should.” It’s a job. He’ll quit. Deal with it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your brother’s a selfish ass.
No, you, and the other entities parents, are asses. It’s a job. He isn’t a slave and he didn’t enlist in the military.
Not OP
Learn the difference between "can" and "should". One shouldn't make their own happiness the deciding factor in every decision they make.