Anonymous wrote:I've told her to call me.
I've told her to visit me whenever she wants as it's easy to come to my house from the workplace.
She hasn't done that and I know she tried to and it didn't work out but that's an easy mistake to make on my side. I made it clear I still wanted to see her but she didn't come to visit and said her cell call function was not working.
I'm not a bad friend.
You are ordering another adult around. You ARE acting like a bad friend. “I’ve told her to visit me.” You don’t do that to people, especially after you flaked. If you don’t understand this, please consider seeking a professional opinion. If you are not a troll, you may have undiagnosed processing issues. Many people have read your post and your rebuttals, and all have had the same reaction: you are in the wrong. OP, you can’t seem to see this situation from someone else’s viewpoint. To have successful relationships, you need to be able to do that.