Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
You want your kids to take calculus as a Sophomore so they have opportunities for other math classes, once they master that. It depends on what your child's interests are. If they are going to major in math or computer science, it's important. In another major, not so much.
We supplement to make sure our kids get what they need as the MCPS curriculum and teaching format doesn't necessarily work for all kids, like mine.
I want my kids to have class choice once they get to junior and senior years and let them get all the mandatory stuff over early.
The problem with MCPS, especially in ES, is smart kids are ignored. This means school is not interesting or challenging. You can argue that providing outside enrichment makes it more so, but they need to learn and develop even at a young age to develop their full potential. Ensuring your child's needs are met regardless of what MCPS does is the responsible thing to do for those of us who can't afford private but prioritize education.
Pushy parents stress out kids.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
You want your kids to take calculus as a Sophomore so they have opportunities for other math classes, once they master that. It depends on what your child's interests are. If they are going to major in math or computer science, it's important. In another major, not so much.
We supplement to make sure our kids get what they need as the MCPS curriculum and teaching format doesn't necessarily work for all kids, like mine.
I want my kids to have class choice once they get to junior and senior years and let them get all the mandatory stuff over early.
The problem with MCPS, especially in ES, is smart kids are ignored. This means school is not interesting or challenging. You can argue that providing outside enrichment makes it more so, but they need to learn and develop even at a young age to develop their full potential. Ensuring your child's needs are met regardless of what MCPS does is the responsible thing to do for those of us who can't afford private but prioritize education.
Pushy parents stress out kids.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
You want your kids to take calculus as a Sophomore so they have opportunities for other math classes, once they master that. It depends on what your child's interests are. If they are going to major in math or computer science, it's important. In another major, not so much.
We supplement to make sure our kids get what they need as the MCPS curriculum and teaching format doesn't necessarily work for all kids, like mine.
I want my kids to have class choice once they get to junior and senior years and let them get all the mandatory stuff over early.
The problem with MCPS, especially in ES, is smart kids are ignored. This means school is not interesting or challenging. You can argue that providing outside enrichment makes it more so, but they need to learn and develop even at a young age to develop their full potential. Ensuring your child's needs are met regardless of what MCPS does is the responsible thing to do for those of us who can't afford private but prioritize education.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
You want your kids to take calculus as a Sophomore so they have opportunities for other math classes, once they master that. It depends on what your child's interests are. If they are going to major in math or computer science, it's important. In another major, not so much.
We supplement to make sure our kids get what they need as the MCPS curriculum and teaching format doesn't necessarily work for all kids, like mine.
I want my kids to have class choice once they get to junior and senior years and let them get all the mandatory stuff over early.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
The truth is there is nothing at the end. Everything is a race these days, whether it’s sports or academics.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
And the reason I would want to do this is...? Why would I want my kid to take calculus (for example) as a HS sophomore? What's the endgame? More prestigious college? More money at first job out of college? I want my kid to love what they are doing, earn enough to support themselves, and be happy. If extra work at home is part of what makes them happy, then hey, great. But otherwise, heck no.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
If that was the case, everyone would be talking about how to get their kids' scores at grades level ranges...not the 99th percentile. Calm down.
Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.
Or, the kids whose parents didn't enrich them and make sure their needs were met are the ones with mental health issues.
Just because you do nothing academic at home, doesn't mean you need to find ways to justify it.
Its easy to game the MAP test with workbooks and working ahead.
Anonymous wrote:Aaaanndd this thread reveals its true message...typical MOCO parents trying to game the system to get their kids ahead. See you in a few years when the kids are having mental health issues because they've been pushed too hard and equate your love to their GPA.