Anonymous wrote:They have an unpleasant whiff of skinhead about them. I’d avoid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This has been discussed. The answer is no, it isn’t age-inappropriate to wear Docs in your 30s or older.
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/379201.page
I guess many people really aren’t listening to you on this matter. Oh well. Better luck policing poster’s grammar, maybe.
Anonymous wrote:They are not very comfortable though, right?
Anonymous wrote:This has been discussed. The answer is no, it isn’t age-inappropriate to wear Docs in your 30s or older.
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/379201.page
So, it’s really weird to hold up fashion trends in a region 4,000 miles away as applicable to here. Or as desirable.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes.
If you’ve ever been to norther Europe, many women wear this style of shoe with skirts and dresses and it doesn’t read as “young.” It does read as cool/creative, but not like a teenager. It’s a very practical shoe.
We aren’t in Northern Europe, sweetie.
NP. And?
So, it’s really weird to hold up fashion trends in a region 4,000 miles away as applicable to here. Or as desirable.
I have mixed feelings on Dr Maartens. I came of age in the 1980s when wearing them was a counter culture statement. Now they are mainstream and ubiquitous so they’re really rather … basic.
Can a 40 yo wear them? I guess so, if she’s basic.
What’s basic is not wearing what you love because too many other people wear it, too.
If they speak to you, wear them!
No, hun. Basic is slavishly following a trend … in Northern Europe.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes.
If you’ve ever been to norther Europe, many women wear this style of shoe with skirts and dresses and it doesn’t read as “young.” It does read as cool/creative, but not like a teenager. It’s a very practical shoe.
We aren’t in Northern Europe, sweetie.
NP. And?
So, it’s really weird to hold up fashion trends in a region 4,000 miles away as applicable to here. Or as desirable.
I have mixed feelings on Dr Maartens. I came of age in the 1980s when wearing them was a counter culture statement. Now they are mainstream and ubiquitous so they’re really rather … basic.
Can a 40 yo wear them? I guess so, if she’s basic.
What’s basic is not wearing what you love because too many other people wear it, too.
If they speak to you, wear them!
Anonymous wrote:Love this thread. Ive been wanting a pair forever. Never could afford in collegeThen my 13yo at the time was interested, then not interested overnight. But my thought still was that thry were too young and trendy. I saw a few moms wearing them over last couple of weeks and brought back my l longing.
I’m ordering a pair!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes.
If you’ve ever been to norther Europe, many women wear this style of shoe with skirts and dresses and it doesn’t read as “young.” It does read as cool/creative, but not like a teenager. It’s a very practical shoe.
We aren’t in Northern Europe, sweetie.
NP. And?
So, it’s really weird to hold up fashion trends in a region 4,000 miles away as applicable to here. Or as desirable.
I have mixed feelings on Dr Maartens. I came of age in the 1980s when wearing them was a counter culture statement. Now they are mainstream and ubiquitous so they’re really rather … basic.
Can a 40 yo wear them? I guess so, if she’s basic.
If you’re 20 and care what someone else thinks about your shoes, you’re 20.
If you’re 40 and still care what someone else thinks about your shoes, you’re doing it wrong.
If you’re 40 and judge people for their shoes, you’ve probably always done it wrong and still are.
+1
Nailed it. I like you.