Anonymous wrote:Why am I the only one wondering why OP is trying to do this for her HS kid instead of the kid himself?
Not every 9th grader is the same... not every 9th grader would feel comfortable challenging the authorities in a new country, with an education system they do not understand... maybe the 9th grader asked already, but was ignored. We don't know.
Parent your own child, since you are the one who understands their abilities and comfort level. Stay out of other people's business if you have nothing helpful to offer.