Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 11:34     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Random good things happen in real life if you put in effort to look your best, have confidence, and do not give off weirdo vibes.


This is classic Woman Privilege - “all you have to do is look good, and good things happen to you”.

If you’re a man, good things don’t “randomly happen” - you have to make them happen through your own hard work.


Lmao that this is more true for women than it is for men. Do you look good and act confident?

If not, the do what you need to do to look really good. Eat well, lose weight, work out, get a good haircut, tailor your clothes, don’t drink much alcohol, etc.
And do what you need to do to act confident (the secret is to actually be really good at something).

From there, good things will “randomly happen.”


Women stupidly think men care about their "confidence". That is women thinking that men like in women what women like in men. Wrong. Be young and hot. That's it. No man cares about your confidence.

Oh, and that "confidence" derived from "being really good at something"? Men don't care about that either.

If it's a lot of work for you to look good, then you're doing it wrong.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 11:22     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Random good things happen in real life if you put in effort to look your best, have confidence, and do not give off weirdo vibes.


This is classic Woman Privilege - “all you have to do is look good, and good things happen to you”.

If you’re a man, good things don’t “randomly happen” - you have to make them happen through your own hard work.


Lmao that this is more true for women than it is for men. Do you look good and act confident?

If not, the do what you need to do to look really good. Eat well, lose weight, work out, get a good haircut, tailor your clothes, don’t drink much alcohol, etc.
And do what you need to do to act confident (the secret is to actually be really good at something).

From there, good things will “randomly happen.”



Seriously.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 11:06     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Online dating is lower risk for men. Look at any “funny” article about how men behave on online dating sites and you’ll see why many women don’t use them. Also, the stakes are higher for men given the benefits of marriage on mens health whereas women live longer if they stay single.


Lol, the liberal/wine/cat ladies are out in force today.



Marriage is one of the most dangerous things a well off man can do financially…gentlemen get a prenup!


The paranoid style in romantic relationships is bound to end well!
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 09:39     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Random good things happen in real life if you put in effort to look your best, have confidence, and do not give off weirdo vibes.


This is classic Woman Privilege - “all you have to do is look good, and good things happen to you”.

If you’re a man, good things don’t “randomly happen” - you have to make them happen through your own hard work.


Lmao that this is more true for women than it is for men. Do you look good and act confident?

If not, the do what you need to do to look really good. Eat well, lose weight, work out, get a good haircut, tailor your clothes, don’t drink much alcohol, etc.
And do what you need to do to act confident (the secret is to actually be really good at something).

From there, good things will “randomly happen.”



Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 08:48     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Online dating is lower risk for men. Look at any “funny” article about how men behave on online dating sites and you’ll see why many women don’t use them. Also, the stakes are higher for men given the benefits of marriage on mens health whereas women live longer if they stay single.


Lol, the liberal/wine/cat ladies are out in force today.



Marriage is one of the most dangerous things a well off man can do financially…gentlemen get a prenup!
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 08:43     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
There was a recent article out on the fact that 10% of the men are getting all of the matches from women. The problem is these men are getting so many matches they become players.

Women, who are looking for relationships, are all picking the same men (the 10%) and the women are not being treated well by these men.

The bulk of the men, the other 90%, get very few matches.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 08:23     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:Random good things happen in real life if you put in effort to look your best, have confidence, and do not give off weirdo vibes.


This is classic Woman Privilege - “all you have to do is look good, and good things happen to you”.

If you’re a man, good things don’t “randomly happen” - you have to make them happen through your own hard work.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 04:59     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:Online dating is lower risk for men. Look at any “funny” article about how men behave on online dating sites and you’ll see why many women don’t use them. Also, the stakes are higher for men given the benefits of marriage on mens health whereas women live longer if they stay single.


Lol, the liberal/wine/cat ladies are out in force today.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2022 00:37     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Random good things happen in real life if you put in effort to look your best, have confidence, and do not give off weirdo vibes.
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2022 22:25     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Get off dating apps. What did we do before dating apps, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram…?
Anonymous
Post 09/05/2022 15:35     Subject: Gender ratios on the apps
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The dating apps ruthlessly let everyone know just how attractive they are to the opposite sex.

Just about anything a man does to convey wealth on the app other than listing their college if prestigious or career if impressive comes off as tryhard.


Then got off the apps and go somewhere that character and strong values are king. Or do you not have those either?


I'm wasn't complaining. The dating apps have worked very well for me.