Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We adopted a foxhound puppy from the shelter during the pandemic and what we thought would be an amazing addition to our household has really just turned into a tremendous amount of work and very little positives. Now you have to understand - this is our first dog. And she’s about 60 lbs and strong. She can be sweet with us, but she has food aggression issues, has a tremendous amount of energy around other dogs which makes us not want to have to interact with them at all (because we can’t hold her back, and dog parks seem hot or miss), and she really isn’t the sort of dog who wants to be near humans (at the moment she’s sleeping on a dog bed away from me when she could be right next to me). We have a dog bed in most rooms in the house, plenty of treats, we’ve spent a tremendous amount of time teaching her commands though it’s hard for her to listen because she’s so full of energy, the kids give her lots of love, and we walk her a ton, but it really just to us comes down to this: she’s a hunting dog and not a family hang out and be near people dog. We don’t even give her full access to our house because she can’t be trusted enough (she actually ate cookies through a ziploc bag the other day, I’m a spot I thought was well out of her reach) So I’m asking this wonderful group: anyone been on this situation? Everyone keeps telling us she’ll be different at age 6 or so but that’s 3 years away and by that time our kids off in college. Oh, and yes, she takes anti anxiety meds.
I have a foxhound, not my first. You're not exercising her enough. And you haven't trained her sufficiently (if at all), I'd be willing to bet. "Teaching her commands" is not training. And I doubt you really spent a lot of time bonding with her.
And the "she's meant for hunting" is an excuse. I've had hound varieties over the last 25 years (basset, beagle, fox, coonhounds), including a foxhound and a coonhound currently. They are absolutely family dogs. They are sweet and goofy, and have wonderful dispositions. Yes, they are food motivated (so put the food up? Not that hard.) Yes, they have some chase instincts (this is where training helps - mine are taught "leave it.")
I say this as nicely as I can, maybe it's you, not her . . . and in fact, I'd say this is likely. Mine sleep with us, snuggle on the couch, etc. Yes, some need a bit more space at times (one of ours loves us but not in a smothering way, the other is a velcro dog). Maybe stop trying to expect things of her that you haven't taught her, haven't invested in her. I've seen a thousand complaints from people like you: you want a perfect dog w/o the work. That doesn't exist. Don't blame her. Blame yourself.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op I have a dog like this, not a foxhound, but one with extremely high energy who doesn't do well with strangers. I spend most of my waking hours exercising this dog. That's what I do, my main employment.
OP here. Thanks for commiserating. I feel the exact same way. People who don’t have dogs like this think it’s just ‘take ‘em for a few walks to tire them out’ or ‘put them in the yard to throw a ball around’ but that isn’t nearly enough for a dog who can literally hunt for hours in the backwoods in the South. My dog doesn’t retrieve. She sprints, for live animals, not balls. I can’t take her to doggy daycare to get her energy out because I don’t trust other people with my dog. I get that rescues want to rescue all animals but this dog absolutely is not having its best life walking on sidewalks in DC. I’m giving it what I can but I’m twisting myself in knots (and breaking the law taking her off leash in the woods so she can sniff/pretend to hunt) and giving her special food and medicine because she has allergies, all while also trying to work FT and raise my kids. We got what we got and we aren’t complaining (too much) and we aren’t giving her back. But this system is broken for rescue dogs that need this level of care. Just venting. Not looking for any more flaming please.
The system is not broke. You got a dog and didn't want to do the work. I've had many hounds and and they are wonderful family dogs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op I have a dog like this, not a foxhound, but one with extremely high energy who doesn't do well with strangers. I spend most of my waking hours exercising this dog. That's what I do, my main employment.
OP here. Thanks for commiserating. I feel the exact same way. People who don’t have dogs like this think it’s just ‘take ‘em for a few walks to tire them out’ or ‘put them in the yard to throw a ball around’ but that isn’t nearly enough for a dog who can literally hunt for hours in the backwoods in the South. My dog doesn’t retrieve. She sprints, for live animals, not balls. I can’t take her to doggy daycare to get her energy out because I don’t trust other people with my dog. I get that rescues want to rescue all animals but this dog absolutely is not having its best life walking on sidewalks in DC. I’m giving it what I can but I’m twisting myself in knots (and breaking the law taking her off leash in the woods so she can sniff/pretend to hunt) and giving her special food and medicine because she has allergies, all while also trying to work FT and raise my kids. We got what we got and we aren’t complaining (too much) and we aren’t giving her back. But this system is broken for rescue dogs that need this level of care. Just venting. Not looking for any more flaming please.
Anonymous wrote:So, we had a hound for a year in the past. He was our second rescue. He was one when we adopted him and ended up with so many issues. Like someone said, my job was training and exercising this dog. I’m going to get flamed on this board but we rehomed him, It was a really hard decision but his needs were causing too much stress in our household. We were spending more time after work trying to work on training and exercising the dog than we were with our kids! I didn’t even realize the extent of our stress until he was gone.
Our current dog we got from a breeder and is a perfect match for our family. While it was our mistake for feeling like we could handle a hound, we weren’t going to chance it with a rescue again.
Anonymous wrote:We adopted a foxhound puppy from the shelter during the pandemic and what we thought would be an amazing addition to our household has really just turned into a tremendous amount of work and very little positives. Now you have to understand - this is our first dog. And she’s about 60 lbs and strong. She can be sweet with us, but she has food aggression issues, has a tremendous amount of energy around other dogs which makes us not want to have to interact with them at all (because we can’t hold her back, and dog parks seem hot or miss), and she really isn’t the sort of dog who wants to be near humans (at the moment she’s sleeping on a dog bed away from me when she could be right next to me). We have a dog bed in most rooms in the house, plenty of treats, we’ve spent a tremendous amount of time teaching her commands though it’s hard for her to listen because she’s so full of energy, the kids give her lots of love, and we walk her a ton, but it really just to us comes down to this: she’s a hunting dog and not a family hang out and be near people dog. We don’t even give her full access to our house because she can’t be trusted enough (she actually ate cookies through a ziploc bag the other day, I’m a spot I thought was well out of her reach) So I’m asking this wonderful group: anyone been on this situation? Everyone keeps telling us she’ll be different at age 6 or so but that’s 3 years away and by that time our kids off in college. Oh, and yes, she takes anti anxiety meds.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op I have a dog like this, not a foxhound, but one with extremely high energy who doesn't do well with strangers. I spend most of my waking hours exercising this dog. That's what I do, my main employment.
OP here. Thanks for commiserating. I feel the exact same way. People who don’t have dogs like this think it’s just ‘take ‘em for a few walks to tire them out’ or ‘put them in the yard to throw a ball around’ but that isn’t nearly enough for a dog who can literally hunt for hours in the backwoods in the South. My dog doesn’t retrieve. She sprints, for live animals, not balls. I can’t take her to doggy daycare to get her energy out because I don’t trust other people with my dog. I get that rescues want to rescue all animals but this dog absolutely is not having its best life walking on sidewalks in DC. I’m giving it what I can but I’m twisting myself in knots (and breaking the law taking her off leash in the woods so she can sniff/pretend to hunt) and giving her special food and medicine because she has allergies, all while also trying to work FT and raise my kids. We got what we got and we aren’t complaining (too much) and we aren’t giving her back. But this system is broken for rescue dogs that need this level of care. Just venting. Not looking for any more flaming please.
Anonymous wrote:Op I have a dog like this, not a foxhound, but one with extremely high energy who doesn't do well with strangers. I spend most of my waking hours exercising this dog. That's what I do, my main employment.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:See if you can find a fenced-in area that will allow you to have your dog off leash. For example, some possibilities are churches, school baseball or track fields, etc. Something fenced in. Then throw tennis balls for 30 minutes for your dog to chase and bring back. If your dog poops, be sure to carefully pick up the whole mess, so that you will always be welcomed back. You can also use the dog park when it's empty, and throw tennis balls for your doggie. Exercise is key.
What the ever-loving F?!?!?!
Do you seriously take your dog onto church grounds, a school track, or a sports field, directly past the "No Animals on the Ball Field" sign, and let them run and poop? You are a grade-A narcissistic jerk, my friend.