Anonymous
08/12/2022 11:05
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
This is MC.
Upper class is articulate, confident kids who can communicate with adults and children alike. All family members are trim and fit. Vacation at St Barts, Aspen, and Europe. Have at least one vacation home. Multiple kids in private school. Kind and not snobby. Live in 2500+ Sq ft house.... I say that because size doesn't matter as much as location and quality. House (no matter size) probably cost 1.5+.... I say this because some people just don't trade up as they age. They stay put, like Warren Buffet. Nice cars, may or may not be expensive, all in good condition.
MC live in a 1500 square foot house or less and camp for vacations.
+1 the mom in OP's post clearly has lots of money. No one doing those things is "middle class." That said, there are all kinds of rich people and they act differently. My parents are very wealthy and they would never live in a 6000sf new build house in a suburb, nor do they have any interest in St Barts or Aspen or scene-y places like that. They live in a 150yo house on a horse farm and wear rubber boots most of the time.
^ See, that's the giveaway. If they have a horse, never go on vacation, and only wear rubber boots. That's how you know. Anyone else is just a poseur.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:59
Subject: Re:When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Honestly, I don’t see any upper class moms with their kids.
I do see well off and upper middle class moms with their kids. There are all kinds, you want an exhaustive list of “types?”
I do see well off and upper middle class moms with their kids. There are all kinds, you want an exhaustive list of “types?”
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:18
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
This is MC.
Upper class is articulate, confident kids who can communicate with adults and children alike. All family members are trim and fit. Vacation at St Barts, Aspen, and Europe. Have at least one vacation home. Multiple kids in private school. Kind and not snobby. Live in 2500+ Sq ft house.... I say that because size doesn't matter as much as location and quality. House (no matter size) probably cost 1.5+.... I say this because some people just don't trade up as they age. They stay put, like Warren Buffet. Nice cars, may or may not be expensive, all in good condition.
Hahahahahahaha
I agree with Kind and not snobby UNTIL there is some indication you want in on being friends.
Kind and not snobby as long as you are in your place as the MC person.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:16
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
Why do you ask?
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:15
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
This is MC.
Upper class is articulate, confident kids who can communicate with adults and children alike. All family members are trim and fit. Vacation at St Barts, Aspen, and Europe. Have at least one vacation home. Multiple kids in private school. Kind and not snobby. Live in 2500+ Sq ft house.... I say that because size doesn't matter as much as location and quality. House (no matter size) probably cost 1.5+.... I say this because some people just don't trade up as they age. They stay put, like Warren Buffet. Nice cars, may or may not be expensive, all in good condition.
MC live in a 1500 square foot house or less and camp for vacations.
What if the 1500 sq ft house cost $2M ? Because that's how real estate works is some markets.
Yup. See San Francisco and NY. Even in DC my first DuPont condo cost more way more than a McMansion in Vienna.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:13
Subject: Re:When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
When they are SO busy but they don’t work and they have child care.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:12
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:6000 sq foot tract house is gauche.
+1. And some of the worst mannered, dim children I’ve seen have been “upper class” kids. Because the wealth can be inherited while the brain cells dim over generations. And sometimes no one tells these kids no. The best mannered child I have ever seen was the child of a nanny.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:12
Subject: Re:When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
OMG who cares
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:10
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
This is MC.
Upper class is articulate, confident kids who can communicate with adults and children alike. All family members are trim and fit. Vacation at St Barts, Aspen, and Europe. Have at least one vacation home. Multiple kids in private school. Kind and not snobby. Live in 2500+ Sq ft house.... I say that because size doesn't matter as much as location and quality. House (no matter size) probably cost 1.5+.... I say this because some people just don't trade up as they age. They stay put, like Warren Buffet. Nice cars, may or may not be expensive, all in good condition.
MC live in a 1500 square foot house or less and camp for vacations.
What if the 1500 sq ft house cost $2M ? Because that's how real estate works is some markets.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:09
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
The answer is going to vary widely based on geography. Upper class in NYC is going to look different than upper class in Potomac vs Houston vs LA vs London. Also, how are you thinking of class? Money only? Taste?
Anonymous
08/12/2022 10:09
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m thinking of a mom who is very well put-together, trim, and pretty. Her kids are well behaved, other than a short-lived pout, and the family lives in one of those nice custom homes spanning 5 or 6,000 square feet in a good school district. The kids are wearing nice clothes, brand name shoes and go to nice camps.
The family vacations in Hawaii, Mexico, the Caribbean and may travel back to their home country in August.
Is this spot on? If not, what signals wealth with families in the DMV?
This is MC.
Upper class is articulate, confident kids who can communicate with adults and children alike. All family members are trim and fit. Vacation at St Barts, Aspen, and Europe. Have at least one vacation home. Multiple kids in private school. Kind and not snobby. Live in 2500+ Sq ft house.... I say that because size doesn't matter as much as location and quality. House (no matter size) probably cost 1.5+.... I say this because some people just don't trade up as they age. They stay put, like Warren Buffet. Nice cars, may or may not be expensive, all in good condition.
MC live in a 1500 square foot house or less and camp for vacations.
+1 the mom in OP's post clearly has lots of money. No one doing those things is "middle class." That said, there are all kinds of rich people and they act differently. My parents are very wealthy and they would never live in a 6000sf new build house in a suburb, nor do they have any interest in St Barts or Aspen or scene-y places like that. They live in a 150yo house on a horse farm and wear rubber boots most of the time.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 09:58
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Anonymous wrote:Usually they don't even have a car, just travel around by horse.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 09:52
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
^ it was a suit
Anonymous
08/12/2022 09:50
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
I said that her son looked nice and she said commented that it was a custom made.
It did fit beautifully. Probably one reason I noticed. This was for a 9th grader.
It did fit beautifully. Probably one reason I noticed. This was for a 9th grader.
Anonymous
08/12/2022 09:43
Subject: When you meet other moms and their kids, what signals upper class?
Usually they don't even have a car, just travel around by horse.