Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Did you ever go to therapy? Did you figure out why you are predisposed to making really bad life choices?
I started therapy two months before I left my ex-husband. I made poor life choices due to C-PTSD from being physically, emotionally, and sexually abused as a child. I was retraumatized in my previous marriage to an emotionally and financially abusive spouse who also cheated on me. Despite my many struggles after leaving my ex, it was a period of tremendous growth and I learned many positive habits to create a functional and happy life for myself and my kids. I’ve since married a man who treats me like gold. And I’m still in therapy!
Anonymous wrote:Were you the poster who was overseas writing posts about being pregnant and asking for advice on an abortion because you had just found out your husband cheated?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What about your mom? She was on Team Ex, right? What is your relationship now?
She was team whatever, but she loathes my ex now: she’s seen how manipulative and unstable he is. She liked him a lot when we were married (he’s very charming, on a superficial level, and handsome, which is why it was so difficult for me to get people to believe and support me when I left.)
Anonymous wrote:What was your role in the failure of your marriage to foreign service husband?
Anonymous wrote:What about your mom? She was on Team Ex, right? What is your relationship now?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:When did you get remarried? Was it to the guy who owned the farm?
I got married in April. He’s a software engineer.
Anonymous wrote:When did you get remarried? Was it to the guy who owned the farm?