Anonymous wrote:The birthday and the bat mitzvah are about 2 months apart, and we will see her in person for both occasions.
Small token wrapped gift [budget $20 max] for the birthday and check in an envelope for the Bat Mitzvah. You're invited to
2 separate events. If you don't attend the birthday don't give a gift. If you don't attend the Bat Mitzvah mail a card and check [minimum $25].