Anonymous
07/12/2022 15:52
Subject: Re:Hope after divorce
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It’s really offensive that I haven’t given thought to my child simply because I want to remarry. My child is very vocal about wanting me to remarry. I know I personally benefited greatly from having a step parent, though I know not all situations like this are great. I want to be able to model a happy healthy marriage for my child, that is an enormous gift.
And if he has kids you want a blended family? I would think long and hard about getting remarried. Why not just date and keep it light?
Anonymous
07/11/2022 23:52
Subject: Re:Hope after divorce
Anonymous wrote:I got married a second time. And I married someone "messy" in that he has their kids full time. This relationship is so much happier than my old one. And weirdly, my exDH and I get along SO MUCH better now that we're apart.
Why does he have full custody?
Anonymous
07/11/2022 23:31
Subject: Re:Hope after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here, I’m 40. I want to remarry because I enjoy the companionship and stability that a good marriage can provide. I enjoy doing family activities, etc.
Hi OP. You can do all those things without being married.
She didn't ask you that.
Anonymous
07/11/2022 23:30
Subject: Hope after divorce
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’d like to remarry one day,
Why? If you don't want to have more kids, what's the point?
Why does marriage only have to be for having kids? It's not 1950, we can have sex outside of marriage now.
Yes, you don't need marriage for sex, either, so marriage is even more pointless.
OP didn't ask for anyone's opinion about marriage. She said SHE wants to remarry. That's what SHE wants. And there's nothing wrong with that. Y'all are some real looney toons on this forum.