Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Freaking out about a guy not texting you for 2 days when a) you e only been on one date and b) he told you he'd be out of town is needy.

This is why dating multiple people is good so you don't become obsessive

It's been a week according to OP. The guy isn't interested. Why are people pretending otherwise? The signs are clear, OP just needs to pay attention.

A week?

Op said the went out on Friday and last message was Saturday. 2 days ago

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Freaking out about a guy not texting you for 2 days when a) you e only been on one date and b) he told you he'd be out of town is needy.

This is why dating multiple people is good so you don't become obsessive

It's been a week according to OP. The guy isn't interested. Why are people pretending otherwise? The signs are clear, OP just needs to pay attention.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Freaking out about a guy not texting you for 2 days when a) you e only been on one date and b) he told you he'd be out of town is needy.

This is why dating multiple people is good so you don't become obsessive

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Anonymous wrote:In my years of dating, I have never experienced this, it’s truly a shock.

A guy that has expressed interest for over two months of going out, we finally met up.

We went for dinner, drinks and then hit another spot for last call. Then, on our way back the cars, we hit the park.

He let me know he was going out of town, the following day. So from there, i just wished him safe travels.


…. i haven’t heard from him since

i’m on the fence of reach out to him verses, if he was interested he would’ve reached out and it’s been a week.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Well, I certainly hope he hasn’t been interred, but if he is it would explain not having heard from him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To me being ghosting is when someone doesn’t respond when you reach out. The numbers dates of dates doesn’t matter.

Ghosting only happens when there is a relationship. One date does not a relationship make. Otherwise, you're ghosting every time you block a telemarketer.

Anonymous wrote:To me being ghosting is when someone doesn’t respond when you reach out. The numbers dates of dates doesn’t matter.

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.


also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.


i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Anonymous wrote:i’m 31, not overweight, easy on the eyes. Dating has just not been my priority as of late.

we met in person prior to going out on the date and kept in communication leading up to the date.

i’m on the side, that if he was interred he would’ve checked in by now.

also, i don’t think i’m “needy”.

i’d agree that something about me, just didn’t click for him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as"ghosting" after one date. You only met to see each other and the guy decided something wouldn't work for him, despite having a nice evening with you. I would not put any thought in it, as in dating you should be seeing multiple guys similar to him. It's choosing or not choosing game, no commitments. Just keep looking and keep in mind if he texts you are his "fallback plan" not a priority

+1 There's no such thing as ghosting after one date. While you had a nice time, it wasn't what he was looking for. Move the F on.