Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 20:50     Subject: Re:Which man would you marry
OP here. It’s been interesting to read the replies. I’m ruling out #1, he is just too poor. He is 50 and hits net worth is $20k with little earnings power. He lives check to check. Even though I can take care of myself, i don’t want the added pressure of helping to care for him too financially. It’s too much for me. I have a kid to look after. I would consider him if I had family wealth or something where I easily could carry him.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 20:17     Subject: Which man would you marry
Neither are rich, keep looking unless you are ugly
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 20:13     Subject: Which man would you marry
After a while, the guy who treats you like gold will stop. And then what do you have? A poor guy who is just ok in bed and not much else in his favor.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 19:01     Subject: Which man would you marry
Neither
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 18:32     Subject: Re:Which man would you marry
Anonymous wrote:Uh neither.

I would much prefer to adopt ten cats 🐈 & live the rest of my years in bliss.


I would do that after having sex w/#2 and dumping him
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 18:21     Subject: Which man would you marry
Anonymous wrote:#1. Anyone can make more money or learn to manage it. An ass is always going to be an ass.

I also think #1 is too good for you, you sound shallow and needy.


+1
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 18:17     Subject: Which man would you marry
Anonymous wrote:There is no way anyone *needs* to marry either of these men unless an inheritance demands it or something.


This. And escaping the clause of such an inheritance would be a movie plot.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 17:06     Subject: Re:Which man would you marry
Dang OP, if there are no other choices, #1. But life in the DMV is very expensive and I have a young child to provide for so saving for school, summer camps and trips and our life I am handling alone. But I wouldn’t want to be resentful of financially providing for a man as well.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 16:56     Subject: Which man would you marry
Would not marry either. But I'm divorced and am done with marriage. Would definitely date #2 though.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 16:42     Subject: Which man would you marry
This is not even an option. #1 all the way. Who are you people picking #2? BTW married 20 years here to my best friend
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 16:37     Subject: Which man would you marry
The one is is better in bed?
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 16:01     Subject: Which man would you marry
Anonymous wrote:I’d go with choice 1 as long as he is not actively bad with money (gambling, overspending etc) he just yhas a lower paying job.

UMC isn’t good enough for me to be treated “ok”


This part right here!!! I'll be damned.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 12:27     Subject: Which man would you marry
#1. We would work on the intimacy.

If he’s loyal then that’s what you need for the end years. Someone who cares about you and will be there when the going gets tough, healthwise.
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 12:27     Subject: Which man would you marry
Anonymous wrote:Not 1, 2 if I really loved him.



Shoot, no, I got that backward. I’d never marry a man who “treats me okay.”
Anonymous
Post 06/27/2022 12:26     Subject: Which man would you marry
Not 1, 2 if I really loved him.