I'm dying laughing at all the people saying call the county and get an advocate and get a lawyer. LMAO!!!! So stupid.
Anyway, as a special education teacher, I can guarantee you that your daughters needs will be met at the elementary school if it's a run of the mill SLD or even HFA, OHI. If the diagnosis is something that needs a more intensive program like ID, ED, or nonverbal autistic or something, THEN the school district would have already been on communication with you about where else to send your child and the public transit options you have since that would also be provided.
All public schools will have access to the related service providers needed for the IEP and it's probable even paid staff members don't even know the extent of services the special education department can provide, let alone a random volunteer. Student IEP's and the services they receive are PRIVATE. Even other children in the class with kids with IEP's don't often know their classmates is receiving services or if someone is, who it is, unless there's a dedicated aid or something. It's none of anyone's business.