Anonymous
06/12/2022 08:03
Subject: Re:Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.
Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.
Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.
However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.
Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.
Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.
However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.
Anonymous
06/12/2022 07:58
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Nerd glasses, please!
🤓🤓🤓
Anonymous
06/12/2022 07:52
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Remove all those fake, long, claw nails and fake hair extensions please.
This.
Anonymous
06/12/2022 03:36
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Don’t get fat
Don’t get fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, fake tans, fake butts. Fake lips,
Don’t drink
Don’t smoke
Don’t be politically stuck on one side or one issue that you aren’t open to new perspectives
Don’t waste my money buying junk
Don’t wear lots of makeup
Wear clothes that fit
Cook homemade food
Clean the house
Don’t hire someone else to raise our children
Don’t complain
Dont envy others
Shave your legs and pits and wax your moustache
Don’t take forever to get ready
Remember you aren’t always right
Learn to drive
Learn to shut your mouth
Stop being desperate
Lose the cheap perfume
Stop looking like everyone else
Breastfeed our child
Anonymous
06/12/2022 03:24
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Don’t get fat
Don’t get fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, fake tans, fake butts. Fake lips,
Don’t drink
Don’t smoke
Don’t be politically stuck on one side or one issue that you aren’t open to new perspectives
Don’t waste my money buying junk
Don’t wear lots of makeup
Wear clothes that fit
Cook homemade food
Clean the house
Don’t hire someone else to raise our children
Don’t complain
Dont envy others
Shave your legs and pits and wax your moustache
Don’t take forever to get ready
Remember you aren’t always right
Learn to drive
Learn to shut your mouth
Stop being desperate
Lose the cheap perfume
Stop looking like everyone else
Breastfeed our child
Don’t get fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, fake tans, fake butts. Fake lips,
Don’t drink
Don’t smoke
Don’t be politically stuck on one side or one issue that you aren’t open to new perspectives
Don’t waste my money buying junk
Don’t wear lots of makeup
Wear clothes that fit
Cook homemade food
Clean the house
Don’t hire someone else to raise our children
Don’t complain
Dont envy others
Shave your legs and pits and wax your moustache
Don’t take forever to get ready
Remember you aren’t always right
Learn to drive
Learn to shut your mouth
Stop being desperate
Lose the cheap perfume
Stop looking like everyone else
Breastfeed our child
Anonymous
06/11/2022 23:13
Subject: Re:Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Assuming these answers are really from men, it's interesting how universally makeup is panned.
I've never been into makeup, but I would break it out for a sorority formal or whatever, and DH (then boyfriend) would be like, "Ugh! Make-up is the worst!" and I'd be like, relax, I only wear six times a year, lol. He's stopped commenting on the rare times I wear it (subtly) but he still comments on women who paint it on.
I wonder why it's such a turn-off. I mean, I don't think it's a turn on, obviously. But a turn OFF?
I've never been into makeup, but I would break it out for a sorority formal or whatever, and DH (then boyfriend) would be like, "Ugh! Make-up is the worst!" and I'd be like, relax, I only wear six times a year, lol. He's stopped commenting on the rare times I wear it (subtly) but he still comments on women who paint it on.
I wonder why it's such a turn-off. I mean, I don't think it's a turn on, obviously. But a turn OFF?
Anonymous
06/11/2022 23:09
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Keep a healthy weight
Smile and laugh a lot
Dress in clothes that accentuate your assets
Minimize makeup
Don't drink too much
Stay informed about what's going on in the world
Have some fun interests
And what, pray tell, is an acceptable ‘fun interest’ 🙄
Golf, ski, tennis, bridge. It doesn’t matter, just be interesting to talk to.
Anonymous
06/11/2022 23:08
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Keep a healthy weight
Smile and laugh a lot
Dress in clothes that accentuate your assets
Minimize makeup
Don't drink too much
Stay informed about what's going on in the world
Have some fun interests
This is a great list. Also, be confident
Anonymous
06/11/2022 22:46
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Omg. Who cares what men think?
LOL there is a multi-billion dollar industry devoted to making women attractive to men so I’d say you do care what we think.
You poor fool. It’s to make women look attractive to other women.
Anonymous
06/11/2022 22:44
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:Keep a healthy weight
Smile and laugh a lot
Dress in clothes that accentuate your assets
Minimize makeup
Don't drink too much
Stay informed about what's going on in the world
Have some fun interests
And what, pray tell, is an acceptable ‘fun interest’ 🙄
Anonymous
06/11/2022 21:49
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman whose into women — am I allowed to answer? For me, be competent. Be really good at something, anything. Don’t care if it’s your job, makeup, carpentry, whatever. But be good at it. That’s hot af. Muscles are nice too, but competence is where it’s at.
That’s fine but just fyi men don’t care about that, and it won’t make you more attractive to men.
Anonymous
06/11/2022 21:47
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
I have never, ever been thin, and I have never, ever lacked attention from men. In fact for much of my life I wished I had a little LESS attention from men. The trick is that I have somewhat of an hourglass figure and a lot of the fat is in the right places (for a man).
Anonymous
06/11/2022 21:20
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Anonymous wrote:It's going to be "be thin, be thin, be thin"
I don’t like thin. Don’t like fat either.
Anonymous
06/11/2022 20:07
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
Exercise (aerobic and strength)
Lose weight (90% of American women should)
Dress well (and age appropriate)
Look after your hair and skin
Don't smoke
Don't get sloppy drunk in public
Don't be dumb (unless you can lean into it)
Don't be in a weird substrata (religious/trumpers/cults)
Don't be weird (in a bad way - needy etc. good to be quirky)
Don't live beyond means/ confuse style for "brands"
Have a life with meaning/purpose so "searching for a man" isn't your main defining characteristic....
Lose weight (90% of American women should)
Dress well (and age appropriate)
Look after your hair and skin
Don't smoke
Don't get sloppy drunk in public
Don't be dumb (unless you can lean into it)
Don't be in a weird substrata (religious/trumpers/cults)
Don't be weird (in a bad way - needy etc. good to be quirky)
Don't live beyond means/ confuse style for "brands"
Have a life with meaning/purpose so "searching for a man" isn't your main defining characteristic....
Anonymous
06/11/2022 19:57
Subject: Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?
I’m a woman whose into women — am I allowed to answer? For me, be competent. Be really good at something, anything. Don’t care if it’s your job, makeup, carpentry, whatever. But be good at it. That’s hot af. Muscles are nice too, but competence is where it’s at.