I’ve been like this after pretty much all of the long term relationships that I’ve been in. Maybe its just because of all of the options?

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Anonymous wrote:OP your situation is very typcial. When men complain that their wives don't want sex, the truth is that their wives don't want sex with THEM. Every divorced woman I know had a miracle level increase in her sex drive. Im not divorced but close to 50 and I totally get what you are going through!!

This! I’m separated and am like this. The thought of sex with my husband is ew.

+ 1. I'm in the same boat. STBXW is hot. But also a cheater. The thought of having sex with her is just plain gross.

Anonymous wrote:Idk why but this sketch came to mind when reading this thread.

Thanks so much to whoever posted this! I just watched Jen's Netflix special last night and laughed my a** off at the divorce bits as I can relate (the other material was pretty funny too). I'm in the middle of a divorce and also have really started ogling men (other than STBX) for what seems like the first time in years, the horniness is real. As to the PP who was being stared at by women in the street, apologies, it could have been me . What it reminds me is being a teen during the time after puberty but before starting to date, in that I can't really do anything with these desires as I'm not going to hook up with someone while technically still married and still living with STBX...