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Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Lol no, this is not going to be a big deal. I am middle eastern, food is important, my parents still send me food despite the fact that I love to cook traditional food and am good at it, but a lot of my friends don’t like cooking and their husbands have not left them over it yet.

People are people and allowed to have preferences.

Anonymous wrote:The guy you’re dating sounds like a loser

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Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

My ex-husband's mom is Lebanese. She does not send daily meals.

OP never said daily.

Also, I’m a mom who loves to cook, DH loves to cook, we cook every single day - and my mom still makes and gives food to us on an almost weekly basis because that’s just what she does.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Lol no, this is not going to be a big deal. I am middle eastern, food is important, my parents still send me food despite the fact that I love to cook traditional food and am good at it, but a lot of my friends don’t like cooking and their husbands have not left them over it yet.

People are people and allowed to have preferences.

Also posters are completely glossing over the fact that, assuming the grandma is a good cook, OP will get to eat a bunch of delicious homemade cooking.

A grown man should be able to provide meals for his children without his mommy. Who cares if it is cultural? So what he’s a Lebanese manchild then.

Meh. I cook for my family of four every day of my life, but I still love my mom’s cooking, and she cooks for us frequently. Receiving meals from his mom for his kids does not mean he is incapable of cooking.

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Lol no, this is not going to be a big deal. I am middle eastern, food is important, my parents still send me food despite the fact that I love to cook traditional food and am good at it, but a lot of my friends don’t like cooking and their husbands have not left them over it yet.

People are people and allowed to have preferences.

Also posters are completely glossing over the fact that, assuming the grandma is a good cook, OP will get to eat a bunch of delicious homemade cooking.

A grown man should be able to provide meals for his children without his mommy. Who cares if it is cultural? So what he’s a Lebanese manchild then.

Anonymous wrote:The men I have dated haven't cared one way or another. I don't mind cooking, but they usually end up cooking for me!

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Anonymous wrote:If you can make up for it in the bedroom, then I think you’re solid. Just be up front so they know that they’ll have to take on that cooking role or budget takeout/premaid meals being with you.

-30 year old man who also doesn’t like to cook.

My STBX wife is an amazing cook but is dead in the bedroom. Would rather have great sex than a great meal. I can always order in or cook myself. You will be fine.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Lol no, this is not going to be a big deal. I am middle eastern, food is important, my parents still send me food despite the fact that I love to cook traditional food and am good at it, but a lot of my friends don’t like cooking and their husbands have not left them over it yet.

People are people and allowed to have preferences.

Also posters are completely glossing over the fact that, assuming the grandma is a good cook, OP will get to eat a bunch of delicious homemade cooking.

Anonymous wrote:I'm 43 and attractive, in shape, and dating. Lately all of the guys I've gone out with have asked right away if I like to cook. I don't. The guy I'm dating now gets homemade meals delivered from his mom weekly (supposedly for his kids, but he eats it too). Is this going to be a problem?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Lol no, this is not going to be a big deal. I am middle eastern, food is important, my parents still send me food despite the fact that I love to cook traditional food and am good at it, but a lot of my friends don’t like cooking and their husbands have not left them over it yet.

People are people and allowed to have preferences.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 43 and attractive, in shape, and dating. Lately all of the guys I've gone out with have asked right away if I like to cook. I don't. The guy I'm dating now gets homemade meals delivered from his mom weekly (supposedly for his kids, but he eats it too). Is this going to be a problem?

When DH and I started dating , I did not know how to cook. He was 39 at the time. He knew this about me, and he didn't care. He knew how to cook, and actually cooked for me while we were dating. Still does.

The bolded would make me run. The problem is not you not knowing how to cook, but that he's looking for a cook for his kids (and himself).

Eh, I read it as a grandma cooking for her grandkids now that their mom isn’t around. Kinda sweet, assuming she’s local.

Why can't he cook? Why does he need his mommy to cook for him? Don't you think that he will expect his GF/wife to cook for him? Big huge red flag.

The PP specifically said that the grandma makes the food for the kids. And lots of men and women can’t cook, it’s not a character flaw.

Cooking isn't that difficult it's something sn adult should no how to do. I'd say the character flaw is laziness in not bothering to try to learn for ho.srlf and to care for his kids. And instead having his mother do it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

If he is from a food-centric family, yes it is going to be a big deal. It is more than just not cooking it is that food is relatively unimportant to you. You will be judged and found wanting. Find a pasty- faced white boy whose Mother microwaved pot pies after a few gin and tonics, you’ll be happier.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone should know how to cook and have a few meal recipes memorized.

Just say that.

Someone your dating has his elderly mother sending meals daily? He cannot figure out how to feed his own kids or meal plan?

OP: his mom is in her 60's, but yes. It sounds more like a cultural tradition though (Lebanese).

My ex-husband's mom is Lebanese. She does not send daily meals.