Anonymous wrote:Middle of the pack kids at Sidwell, who may in fact test quite well, go to schools such as Tulane, Hamilton, Colgate, Connecticut College, University of Wisconsin, Lehigh, Kenyon, Oberlin. You actually need to be a top student to get into Wash U, Tufts, Middlebury, Northeastern, and NYU. Ivy League is a crapshoot for everyone. Some of the kids who choose more obscure schools do so for athletic reasons.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Just finished the process with DC at big 3. I would focus on SAT prep and bringing up GPA. Don’t worry about the sport because unless it’s played at a high level and you can be recruited, it just doesn’t matter. DC had similar grades and was able to get into several NESCAC schools and other SLACS but not the very top. More like the next tier down. DC had several ECs and some awards on a national level and higher SAT scores from tutoring. And received merit at a few SLACS too.
How does that possibly fit with the narrative that private school isn't a huge advantage in the admissions process? NESACs (even the ones that are a "tier down") aren't accessible at all to public school kids with similar stats.
Public school kids with these stats actually do get into similar colleges.
Well then they have changed in 2022 because my 2018 kid’s classmates at BCC weren’t going with those stats. Even a recruited athlete with a unweighted GPA in that range wasn’t going to a NESCAC. NESCACs were taking maybe top 5-10% kids from public. I didn’t realize things had gotten that much easier.
BCC and Big-3 admissions stats would be different for a variety of reasons. I don't think that we are comparing apples to apples.
Anonymous wrote:These schools seem like a huge reach to me based on what you describe, but maybe I'm doom and gloom?
Yes, boys have a documented edge for admission to the second-tier LACs. And some of the first tier ones too. More girls apply than boys and the girls are on average more qualified. In order to maintain a reasonably balanced female-male ratio, schools admit boys who are less qualified.
Anecdotally I have seen boys who are pretty average get into surprisingly good schools and girls who seem well above average get into less good schools than I would have expected.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Conn college, trinity, the all women’s colleges other than Wellesley, Dickinson, Denison, Lafayette, Gettysburg, Sewanee, Rhodes, Wooster. There are so many good options. Don’t push your DD too much - let her be happy. That is far far more important.
My DD graduated from a big3 (NCS) last year and I do not think a single girl went to any of the colleges you listed.
Where did the middle of the pack kids go?
Bates, Richmond, Colby, Colgate, UMiami, Tulane, NYU, Wake Forest
where did the bottom 25% go?
For STA, the less-prestigious choices were: Maryland, Syracuse, Oberlin, SMU, Indiana, Lafayette, Denver, Connecticut, Temple, Miami Ohio, Gettysburg, RIT, Alabama.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Conn college, trinity, the all women’s colleges other than Wellesley, Dickinson, Denison, Lafayette, Gettysburg, Sewanee, Rhodes, Wooster. There are so many good options. Don’t push your DD too much - let her be happy. That is far far more important.
My DD graduated from a big3 (NCS) last year and I do not think a single girl went to any of the colleges you listed.
Where did the middle of the pack kids go?
Bates, Richmond, Colby, Colgate, UMiami, Tulane, NYU, Wake Forest
where did the bottom 25% go?
For STA, the less-prestigious choices were: Maryland, Syracuse, Oberlin, SMU, Indiana, Lafayette, Denver, Connecticut, Temple, Miami Ohio, Gettysburg, RIT, Alabama.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Conn college, trinity, the all women’s colleges other than Wellesley, Dickinson, Denison, Lafayette, Gettysburg, Sewanee, Rhodes, Wooster. There are so many good options. Don’t push your DD too much - let her be happy. That is far far more important.
My DD graduated from a big3 (NCS) last year and I do not think a single girl went to any of the colleges you listed.
Where did the middle of the pack kids go?
Bates, Richmond, Colby, Colgate, UMiami, Tulane, NYU, Wake Forest
None of these is middle of pack
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Conn college, trinity, the all women’s colleges other than Wellesley, Dickinson, Denison, Lafayette, Gettysburg, Sewanee, Rhodes, Wooster. There are so many good options. Don’t push your DD too much - let her be happy. That is far far more important.
My DD graduated from a big3 (NCS) last year and I do not think a single girl went to any of the colleges you listed.
Where did the middle of the pack kids go?
Bates, Richmond, Colby, Colgate, UMiami, Tulane, NYU, Wake Forest
where did the bottom 25% go?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for all the responses. Very interesting and maybe reassuring? As I mentioned above, DD is a happy and content kid (knock on wood). That is most important to me. I don't want her to stress out unnecessarily. I would be thrilled if DD could get into some of the "B-level" schools mentioned above, especially if it doesn't require an unnecessarily stressful junior year.
Out of curiosity, has anyone noticed boys having an edge over girls based on demographics (i.e., more girls applying than boys)? Or is that not an issue when we are talking about selective colleges?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The "middle of the pack" kids at my son's Big3 are now at schools like NYU, Tufts, Wake Forest, Boston College, Colgate, Tulane, Bates, Wisconsin, Texas and Richmond. Pushing more sports won't have an impact unless that would make her a recruitable athlete. Some SAT prep is probably a good idea--no need to start early and it doesn't have to be super-intensive, but getting that test score up does help. ED and full pay can also be very helpful at schools below the Ivy tier.
Not sure when your son graduated from high school, but in the 2022 post covid reality, middle of the back isn't touching NYU or Tufts. These are single digit admit rates now. Tulane, only if ED,a dn BC and Wisconsin are at best, somewhere between a target and a reach, particularly BC.
+1. A middle of the pack kid might get a yes at one of these schools ED, but they aren't going to be getting multiple acceptances with the ability to choose.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for all the responses. Very interesting and maybe reassuring? As I mentioned above, DD is a happy and content kid (knock on wood). That is most important to me. I don't want her to stress out unnecessarily. I would be thrilled if DD could get into some of the "B-level" schools mentioned above, especially if it doesn't require an unnecessarily stressful junior year.
Out of curiosity, has anyone noticed boys having an edge over girls based on demographics (i.e., more girls applying than boys)? Or is that not an issue when we are talking about selective colleges?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The "middle of the pack" kids at my son's Big3 are now at schools like NYU, Tufts, Wake Forest, Boston College, Colgate, Tulane, Bates, Wisconsin, Texas and Richmond. Pushing more sports won't have an impact unless that would make her a recruitable athlete. Some SAT prep is probably a good idea--no need to start early and it doesn't have to be super-intensive, but getting that test score up does help. ED and full pay can also be very helpful at schools below the Ivy tier.
Not sure when your son graduated from high school, but in the 2022 post covid reality, middle of the back isn't touching NYU or Tufts. These are single digit admit rates now. Tulane, only if ED,a dn BC and Wisconsin are at best, somewhere between a target and a reach, particularly BC.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Conn college, trinity, the all women’s colleges other than Wellesley, Dickinson, Denison, Lafayette, Gettysburg, Sewanee, Rhodes, Wooster. There are so many good options. Don’t push your DD too much - let her be happy. That is far far more important.
My DD graduated from a big3 (NCS) last year and I do not think a single girl went to any of the colleges you listed.
Where did the middle of the pack kids go?
Bates, Richmond, Colby, Colgate, UMiami, Tulane, NYU, Wake Forest