I would say a card (no cash necessary). My kids only received gifts/cash from close family members

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't give money.

Even though you aren't religious, you can gift a Bible. My son LOVES this one.

https://www.amazon.com/Laugh-Grow-Bible-Kids-Five-Minute/dp/1546017453/ref=sr_1_28?crid=2YN8BMO0ZD8IN&keywords=kid+bible&qid=1649545477&sprefix=kid%2520bible%2Caps%2C55&sr=8-28

Please give money if not giving religious gift. It's really not a gift-giving occasion. It's a religious event.

Then why give money? It seems so random.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't give money.

Even though you aren't religious, you can gift a Bible. My son LOVES this one.

https://www.amazon.com/Laugh-Grow-Bible-Kids-Five-Minute/dp/1546017453/ref=sr_1_28?crid=2YN8BMO0ZD8IN&keywords=kid+bible&qid=1649545477&sprefix=kid%2520bible%2Caps%2C55&sr=8-28

Please give money if not giving religious gift. It's really not a gift-giving occasion. It's a religious event.

Your dd can wear white.

As far as gifts you can just give cash. For my first communion, my mom's Catholic family gave cash or bonds; my dad's family gave various presents - one aunt and uncle gave me some bath & bodyworks products which were not considered appropriate lol.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't give money.

Even though you aren't religious, you can gift a Bible. My son LOVES this one.

https://www.amazon.com/Laugh-Grow-Bible-Kids-Five-Minute/dp/1546017453/ref=sr_1_28?crid=2YN8BMO0ZD8IN&keywords=kid+bible&qid=1649545477&sprefix=kid%2520bible%2Caps%2C55&sr=8-28

This is Op. We are known atheists and this family has a HUGE family that are likely giving these types of things. I’d rather give money or nothing

Yeah ignore the pp. Presumably the child already has a (if not multiple) bible and regardless it would be odd for you as a family friend to gift one. Money is perfectly appropriate.