Anonymous wrote:I think both can get your son to wherever it is he wants to go (grad school, job, etc.), but they are different in feel--big state school vs. small private, UMD is very comprehensive with all sorts of majors, interests, etc. whereas MIT is (obviously) much more techy. Does he have a feeling about which one would fit him better? With the fact that you have money saved and he wouldn't be taking out loans to make up the different (or your family wouldn't be taking a vow of poverty or taking out a second mortgage or anything like that) I would probably say MIT -- it really is just such an amazing school -- but I don't think UMD would be a bad choice by any means.
CONGRATS to your kid for having two absolutely amazing options!
OP here. Thank you.
No second mortgage or anything. We are not rich-rich, but fortunate enough to have saved enough for a Bachelor’s degree.
Loved UMD BK sessions — it truly seems like a fabulous opportunity. DC was deciding between UMD and U-M, not expecting anymore admits from HYPSM. Then the MIT decision came — will know more after the visit (which is a weekend where the kids get to spend 3.14 days at MIT!), but at this point MIT is #1.