Wait a minute. I posted about my concerns about my BIL getting engaged to a gal with an OnlyFans a few months back and was nearly uniformly lambasted as a close-minded prude. But most of the posts on this thread seem to be saying that the OP should NOT marry a similar person. WTH?!

And, OP, if you aren't a troll, I can tell you that you should think long and hard about this. Even if you can overcome your objections, which I share, your family may have their own concerns and this could well affect your married life for a very long time. Are you close to your family? How do you think they will feel about you being with a partner like this?

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

OP here. She admitted it when I asked her why she was buying a bunch of lingerie and toys that she didn’t use with me.

Wait, she’s still doing it? Okay, that’s a flat out no from me. I would not be okay with my partner acting out sexually for other people’s gratification. Very few people would. It goes against everything our “lizard brains” tell us. Just no.

She enjoys sexual attention from strangers. He has to decide if he’s cool with that. Maybe for some guys it’s a turn on.

Personally the seeking of attention from strangers over the internet — sexual or not — suggests there is a deeper underlying issue in her self esteem. Does she not have any healthy outlets for feeling confident about herself? Over time that kind of insecurity can turn into other issues.

Yep. Cue the cheating and affairs in midlife. She will have profiles on affair websites down the road to her her fix of needed external validation.

She’s not right in the head. Hard pass

You’re the gf has high numbers poster. Not real life

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

This. Before casting stones, have you paid for content online? If yes, get over yourself and your double standards.

OP here. I’ve never paid for any online stuff. I watch porn like any regular guy, but I don’t go on those sites.

So you use porn, but you can't respect the women you're looking at?

And do you think that not paying for what you're looking at makes you somehow better?

This is a bit like how one will watch movies, but one would never want to date an actor/actress. Or, how one sees the value of cops or the military, but would never want to date a cop or a military person.

The people on onlyfans are entertainers, albeit, titillating ones.

The paying thing is not the issue. I'm sure Op would pay for some of it, too. He just has issues with dating one.

Why are you here? She does something that sickens you. Just break up with her and go.

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

OP here. She admitted it when I asked her why she was buying a bunch of lingerie and toys that she didn’t use with me.

Wait, she’s still doing it? Okay, that’s a flat out no from me. I would not be okay with my partner acting out sexually for other people’s gratification. Very few people would. It goes against everything our “lizard brains” tell us. Just no.

She enjoys sexual attention from strangers. He has to decide if he’s cool with that. Maybe for some guys it’s a turn on.

Personally the seeking of attention from strangers over the internet — sexual or not — suggests there is a deeper underlying issue in her self esteem. Does she not have any healthy outlets for feeling confident about herself? Over time that kind of insecurity can turn into other issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Have you considered joining her and doing it together?

I'd imagine there is a good market for watching couples do their thing... could be a good side hustle!

OP here. I make plenty of money and don’t think putting my business out online to degrade my partner is a good thing to do.

You could wear a mask... and you don't have to degrade her when you have sex... or is that your thing?

Maybe she should degrade him.

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Anonymous wrote:Have you considered joining her and doing it together?

I'd imagine there is a good market for watching couples do their thing... could be a good side hustle!

OP here. I make plenty of money and don’t think putting my business out online to degrade my partner is a good thing to do.

You could wear a mask... and you don't have to degrade her when you have sex... or is that your thing?

Anonymous wrote:You think it's cheating if she is posting naked pictures of herself on the internet?

Without her being upfront about it, yes. If it he knew from the beginning, not cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

OP here. She admitted it when I asked her why she was buying a bunch of lingerie and toys that she didn’t use with me.

Wait, she’s still doing it? Okay, that’s a flat out no from me. I would not be okay with my partner acting out sexually for other people’s gratification. Very few people would. It goes against everything our “lizard brains” tell us. Just no.

Anonymous wrote:Have you considered joining her and doing it together?

I'd imagine there is a good market for watching couples do their thing... could be a good side hustle!

OP here. I make plenty of money and don’t think putting my business out online to degrade my partner is a good thing to do.

What's a can girl?

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Anonymous wrote:How did you find out?

This. Before casting stones, have you paid for content online? If yes, get over yourself and your double standards.

OP here. I’ve never paid for any online stuff. I watch porn like any regular guy, but I don’t go on those sites.

So you use porn, but you can't respect the women you're looking at?

And do you think that not paying for what you're looking at makes you somehow better?

Have you considered joining her and doing it together?

I'd imagine there is a good market for watching couples do their thing... could be a good side hustle!

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Anonymous wrote:Obvious troll post.

I believe him. You will be surprised by the amount of women who have had one.

I know this because my younger sister used to be a can girl and many of her friends as well.

This. There have been posts about cops and teachers having OnlyFan accounts. You will be surprised how many women have them but don’t tell anyone about it.

OnlyFans is not just for nudes. One women cleans her home and make like a million dollars a year doing it.