Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
+1. Asian woman here. Meanwhile, my husband (white guy) had to stop and think about whether he had ever been mistaken for someone else and couldn’t think of more than one example.
On the flip side, all of us blond haired girls look alike
And when 30yr old men were wearing skinny jeans, over sized glasses, and a beard - they all look alike to me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So?
I wonder if stories like this, where the suggestion of racism is maybe plausible, but factually is certainly not an active act of racism, are playing in favor of the Rs going in to the midterms. They just don’t seem that concerned.
We're not. Because normal, moderate, *rational* people see this as a common mistake - people confuse people all the time, regardless of race. I'm white and was constantly confused with another girl in college. I know a few women who, to me, look exactly alike and I can never remember their names. They're all white. Does this make me a racist, or a normal person? This type of nonsense is going to backfire bigly on the Dems, as it should. LWNJ gotcha moments are not going to work in your favor.
I think if you are not a person of color you don’t really understand why this is pretty offensive. It’s one thing if there is an isolated incident of confusion or you look like someone else, it’s another if something official like the governor (or probably a secretary or intern) confuses you on a professional level like this.
I have a friend who is Cuban and was trying to get in a sorority in college with another friend, who was also Cuban. One of them was red headed and extremely fair, the other olive skinned with black hair.
People in the sorority confused them all the time. My friend eventually got fed up and declined to join.
I have another POC friend who is a professor at a well regarded university and was confused with her Puerto Rican colleague all the time, despite looking totally different, one being maybe 7 inches taller than the other, and being different ethnicities altogether.
There is something really offensive about being mistaken for someone else *just because* you are both an “other,” not because you look alike or are otherwise alike. It’s dehumanizing and makes you feel invisible.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Louise Lucas sounds like a real ahole. Between trolling Youngkin from the start on Twitter, and deciding to make this mistake public, it's clear she is not a nice person.
Youngkin apologized to her, yet she still felt the need to go public. Just like the OP, who felt the need to start a stupid thread on this nonsense. Grow up.
Yeah, doesn’t everyone know all Black people look the same?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So?
I wonder if stories like this, where the suggestion of racism is maybe plausible, but factually is certainly not an active act of racism, are playing in favor of the Rs going in to the midterms. They just don’t seem that concerned.
We're not. Because normal, moderate, *rational* people see this as a common mistake - people confuse people all the time, regardless of race. I'm white and was constantly confused with another girl in college. I know a few women who, to me, look exactly alike and I can never remember their names. They're all white. Does this make me a racist, or a normal person? This type of nonsense is going to backfire bigly on the Dems, as it should. LWNJ gotcha moments are not going to work in your favor.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That woman has already started 2 scandals about Youngkin in this first month in office. This is the third. She hates him.
She was planning to keep it private until Youngkin decided to berate Democrats for not confirming Wheeler. Apparently they exist for the sole purpose of rubber stamping whatever Youngkin wants, and really need to know their place.
DP. Ah, so she's retaliating against him for something totally unrelated. She sure is a winner.
Keeping it private was a courtesy to Youngkin. It would have been nice if Youngkin could have shown basic courtesy back. But apparently you don’t hold white wen to the same standard of decorum as you do black women. Figures.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
+1. Asian woman here. Meanwhile, my husband (white guy) had to stop and think about whether he had ever been mistaken for someone else and couldn’t think of more than one example.
On the flip side, all of us blond haired girls look alike
And when 30yr old men were wearing skinny jeans, over sized glasses, and a beard - they all look alike to me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
+1. Asian woman here. Meanwhile, my husband (white guy) had to stop and think about whether he had ever been mistaken for someone else and couldn’t think of more than one example.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
+1. Asian woman here. Meanwhile, my husband (white guy) had to stop and think about whether he had ever been mistaken for someone else and couldn’t think of more than one example.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mistakes happen, he apologized, this makes the woke police look worst
I'm one of two Indian women in my office and get confused for the other one (15 years younger, and at least 50lbs heavier than me) ALL THE TIME. It makes me really, really angry. I bet that has never happened to you before.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That woman has already started 2 scandals about Youngkin in this first month in office. This is the third. She hates him.
Takes two to tango. Youngkin keeps screwing up and giving her ammunition. Maybe if Youngkin weren't such an a-hole he wouldn't have a problem.
I never said they were legitimate scandal. As I recall she screeched that Youngkin's AG fired his entire civil rights division on day one. Didn't happen. No apology from her though.