Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 09:59     Subject: Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Totally normal thing to do. If you don't like it, don't send him a photo back. You're not obligated.


Honest question: if you send selfies, why do think other people want to see a picture of you??


I don't know why but that made me laugh out loud. Can somebody answer - it is a good question!
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 08:26     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


You're the weirdo. With a cold heart.


Like I said, I love my friend. And I'd never say anything about the selfies. It doesn't harm anyone in any way. I just find it weird to send friends pictures of yourself. I have never even thought about doing that. I don't take selfies, unless I'm on vacation or at an event by myself and there's no one to take a photo for me.


You're not attractive. We get it.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 01:09     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


You're the weirdo. With a cold heart.


Like I said, I love my friend. And I'd never say anything about the selfies. It doesn't harm anyone in any way. I just find it weird to send friends pictures of yourself. I have never even thought about doing that. I don't take selfies, unless I'm on vacation or at an event by myself and there's no one to take a photo for me.


So you’re only a narcissist who takes selfies when you want to document a moment? Who are the pics for? Yourself to remember the moment or your friends so you can share the moment?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 21:43     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


You're the weirdo. With a cold heart.


Like I said, I love my friend. And I'd never say anything about the selfies. It doesn't harm anyone in any way. I just find it weird to send friends pictures of yourself. I have never even thought about doing that. I don't take selfies, unless I'm on vacation or at an event by myself and there's no one to take a photo for me.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 20:51     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


You're the weirdo. With a cold heart.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 17:38     Subject: Selfies? (No not that kind)
I probably send my wife two or three pictures a day. Sometimes they are selfies.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 16:47     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


Why are you best friends with a narcissist?


She's not a narcissist, but she does do some narcissistic things sometimes. I'm not perfect either.


What personality disorders do you reflect sometimes?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 16:43     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


Why are you best friends with a narcissist?


She's not a narcissist, but she does do some narcissistic things sometimes. I'm not perfect either.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 16:34     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


Why are you best friends with a narcissist?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 16:33     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.


Maybe she wants a photo of you, too. People are lonely, miss connection with their friends - haven’t been able to see each other a lot for stretches during covid.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 15:51     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.


This is such nonsense. Sending people photos of yourself is narcissistic, and being on the receiving end is strange, no matter how much you like the person.
My best friend sends me photos of herself just sitting at home and it's weird. I love her, but it's weird.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 13:59     Subject: Selfies? (No not that kind)
Anonymous wrote:Are other photos sent? My friends and I sent photos through text fairly often. Mostly of random stuff- cats I’m weird position, funny sign, passage in a book. But sometimes is a selfie, like a reaction face, or, check out my new hat. Or, a wave hello. Also do this with my partner. I didn’t realize it was weird.

I do t have Snapchat, but isn’t that also what Snapchat is about?


I can understand sending cool stuff you see. And yeah, Snapchat is all about silly reaction faces and stuff like that. Totally different medium. Plus you and your friends know each other and have for some time, which makes it different from OP’s case.

Like a different PP said, sounds like OP isn’t into this dude. Better cut your losses early.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 13:55     Subject: Selfies? (No not that kind)
I think its cute, sounds typical millennial
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 13:53     Subject: Re:Selfies? (No not that kind)
I’d love it if my crush sent me a selfie because he’s not on social and I don’t have any photos of him.

I think it’s a sign you’re not that into him if seeing his face doesn’t fill you with good feelings.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2022 13:13     Subject: Selfies? (No not that kind)
Are other photos sent? My friends and I sent photos through text fairly often. Mostly of random stuff- cats I’m weird position, funny sign, passage in a book. But sometimes is a selfie, like a reaction face, or, check out my new hat. Or, a wave hello. Also do this with my partner. I didn’t realize it was weird.

I do t have Snapchat, but isn’t that also what Snapchat is about?